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2146732 tn?1418849107

Its more of statment. Today is the 1st day of my miserable life.

So I had a mini arguement with my fiancé about an hour ago&i hung up on him,i think were really done,but idc I was tired of his baby mama drama anyway. But im sad oh well guess it goes that way.
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480448 tn?1426948538
Glad to hear things are going better, and I commend you on being able to recognize an area where you need to improve on.  That's one of the hardest things to do in a relationship....to take an honest look at ourselves and OUR contributions to the problems.  Way to go!

The ex thing is rough.  Unfortunately, sometimes those situations have to just sort of fizzle out.  Usually, as the kid(s) grow older, the issues will tend to get a little better.  Best thing for you to do is let your fiance handle her...and try to remain as neutral as humanly possible, which I KNOW is not easy sometimes!

Good luck hon!
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2146732 tn?1418849107
We doing good. Small communication problems on my part. His childs mother trys to cause us problems. But we are doing good now & I'm continuely working on my communication skills. So that he knows whats on my mind&how im feeling. But thank you. No I was not giving up on the love of my life,my first love. Never!
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480448 tn?1426948538
You're right, it's NOT that simple, and relationships take work.  The most important thing to have in a relationship is good communication.  Never ASSUME your fiance knows what you're thinking, what you need, and vice versa.  If you are worrying about something, it's best to just put it out there and discuss it, rather than letting it fester.. When you do that, things end up way overexaggerated in your mind.

How are things between you guys?  Did anything get resolved?  What exactly were you fighting about?

Hope things gets better for you both!
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2146732 tn?1418849107
There is no BEST answer to choose for this. I wasn't just going to give up on the love of my life. Its not that simple!
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If you believe the relationship is done then just move on.That simple.
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