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lack of attention

I'm 15 , I just switched to another school last year.I was very attached to my old fellows. The new classmates are not good they can be considered in the list of bad company . I always wanted good company so I have to stay alone in class. I have 2 siblings who are always busy in themselves. Mother and father are also busy in their activities. I am getting quiet day by day, crying for no reasons or missing my old self, watching same movies and novels for about 2 years and losing interest in doing things I loved to do at one time. I am also getting headaches , depression and losing interest in studies. My parents have done some restrictions so I cannot use facebook or I dont have personal cellphone till now. I feel dumb  in the class and feel even stupid at home staring at something without noticing it. my social life has totally finished. any help please ?
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Well, first, the old friends are still there, right?  The should help.  And this will pass as you get used to the new school, make new friends, and it becomes a settled part of who you are now.  You will always be making changes in life, and for you it will probably always take a little time to get used to it.  Just let it be, this is normal.
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7895439 tn?1410257737
You've probably been with your old friends since kindergarten. It's probably the first major change you've ever been through.  There will be many.   You have got to be flexible all the time.  It's gonna be hard.  Give it more chances.  I am sure there are others at your new school just waiting to be friends with you. You're still grieving.  Let it go!
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1551327 tn?1514045867
Wow it seems like you have unintentionally become an introvert.  Are there any other hobbies that you have or have had in the past that you can do to keep yourself busy.  It won't always be like this but if this is how it has to be make the best out of it.  Do not let it stunt your growth, instead use it as an opportunity to grow even stronger.
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