I am SO very sorry for your loss. Our pets are such an important part of our lives and such beloved members of our families that no matter how long we have them with us, it is never long enough.
PLEASE do not beat yourself up over this. This was nothing that you did or did not do that caused this. MOST dogs groan as they lay down, they're just like us in that respect. Some are more vocal than others and will make more noise, some will make less. Some will make none. Some will make noise sometimes and not at other times, but that doesn't mean that the times when they do make noise signify that something is amiss.
It could have been Bloat (also called Gastric Torsion with Volvulus) but the only thing that makes me think that is the timeline. IF, however, he had been exhibiting other symptoms of Bloat, your vet should have noted those symptoms and he should have offered a surgical solution. In a case of bloat, essentially the stomach and the spleen switch places, with the stomach flipping over on itself. This effectively seals in the contents of the stomach leaving the dog unable to vomit and unable to move the stomach contents further down into the intestines. Emergency surgery can untwist the stomach and, as long as there is not too much damage done to the intestine and spleen, a gastropexy (stomach is sewn to the abdominal wall) is performed to prevent it from happening again and as long as the dog makes it through the first 24 hours post-surgically, recovery is usually uneventful.
IF your vet thought that this was bloat he should have decompressed the stomach and prepared for surgery. This is the first step toward relieving the tremendous pressure. Had it been bloat, however, your dog would have been trying unsuccessfully (and also quite violently, I might add) to vomit, but would not have produced any vomitus, only copious amounts of foam and saliva. In the absence of vomiting, it sounds like your dog had some type of cardiac episode. If it was cardiac, NOTHING that you did was going to save him. You did everything for him that you could, including taking him and releasing him from his pain and agony. You lived up to your end of the bargain that you made with him when you took him home to live with you. He made the deal to give you as many years as he could of joy and companionship and you, in return, promised to love him with all your heart and to never let him suffer. You gave him the greatest gift you could, and you kept your promise to him. You didn't let him suffer.
My wish for you is that you will be able to remember him with smiles and love and not tears. He hasn't left you. He's still walking beside you, you just can't see him any more. But he will always be there.
Ghilly
I am so very sorry for your loss,although words bring
little comfort when a person looses a beloved,very
cherished companion.
When our Rottie started to groaning,we'd though it was
due to her elder age but come to find she had cancer in
her rear leg.( I am not saying this was the cause for your
Lab's groaning) Zena was with us for almost 2 more
years after cancer was first discovered,she had some
pain meds and her Glucosamine and Condroitin and
her "groans stopped with the pain medication( we did
NOT do surgery or chemo on her she was almost 11
when cancer was found)
Many times "groaning" have a hard time getting up or
down is due to joint issues with older age,this may have
been what your vet thought?
YOU did everything you could do to help your beloved
companion,nothing more could have been done,some-
times I regret to say,we never get complete answers
WHY terrible things happen. Again I am very sorry for
your best buddy's passing.
Jan
Anybody have anything similar happen to them?