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Trouble getting up again with new gf

Basically my body isnt behaving how it usually does. Normally I can *** once and would still he hard for a few minutes before going soft again. Now my penis is immidiately going soft after i have *** once. The first time we had sex which were just dating then my penis behaved like it normally would. On another note the first time I climax quickly under 5 mins depending on position.

The other women Ive had sex with this never happened and the first time i came quickly on her i felt kinda bad for not lasting longer she didnt seemed bothered and i got right back up anyway but i really care for and like her a lot so i want to pleasure her as much as possible so i feel like i may be putting too much pressure on myself which is why i cant get hard again like i dont even know how long it takes because she says thats enough but its def more than 5 minutes i feel like 10 has even transpired with her or me stroking in futility

Also if i do get back up say 20 mins later then i have trouble keeping my erection which has also never happened before. Even during intercourse ive lost erections and i feel bad about the way my body is behaving. Ive had a talk with her about all this to let her know how i felt but still in having these issues

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15439126 tn?1444443163
age / weight / waistline?

Which prescription medications are you taking?
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24/150lbs/like 32"?

I dont believe this has started since i stared taking any medication but ive been on two different antibiotics klaricid and augmentin
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15439126 tn?1444443163
You seem healthy and young enough.

I suppose it could just be overall frequency's excessive (cut back on how many times in the previous couple of weeks, and you may see a return to your usual capability).

The risk is:  the more you worry about it, the more the problem will worsen.  Work at acceptance, and ease your mind.  I think not trying to fix things, is probably the most direct way to get the result you want.
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