You might try a 1-day disposable contact (like 1-day Acuvue Moist). There's no need to soak them in solution--at the end of the day you just throw them in the trash.
Not everyone can wear contacts and people that have worn them for a long time can suddenly develop intolerance especially women as hormonal changes can make the eye sensitive.
Work with your fitter. If it doesn't work out then glasses or lasik might be you only choices.
JCH MD
I would listen to your doctor with regard to the allergies but if you do need a different type of solution:
I have the same type of lenses. After I developed a corneal ulcer I switched solutions to Sauflon. It is a hydrogen peroxide based solution that you have to let your lenses sit in for six hours in a vile. You can not use it in your eye.