3 miscarriages my fault?

[madjam2]

Hi 22 male i have had 4 miscarriges with 2 different girls. I have a problem not sure what causes it but when i get an erection its doesnt get fully erect its gets hard enough to penatrate but not like it should and it only has maybe 3 times in my life and i have been sexually active since i was 12. Could the fact i only get semi erect be causeing these miscarriges i cant help but to feel like it is my fault since its been with 2 different girls and one went on to have a baby with the next man she was with.I am very worried and embarrassed to go talk to my doctor about this because the fact i am so young and shouldnt be havin a problem with my sexual performance. If anyone has any thought or idea it would be very thankful alls i have wanted my whole life is a family to love and take care of and i worry i will be the one stopping me and my fiancee from being able to carry out our family name please someone give me an idea on what to do.

[mbplovesjjr4ever]

I'm sorry to say that it could possibly have something to do with you. Find and speak with a genetic counselor. They can test you and your DNA for abnormalities. Some abnormalities can make the woman's body fight against the fetus which can therefore end in miscarriage. My heart goes out to you and I hope everything works out for you!

[AnnieBrooke]

It's easy enough to get a sperm analysis run.  You don't have to talk to the doc about getting semi-erect, but if you tell him you're about to get married and have had a couple of girlfriends who had miscarriages and want to rule out anything unusual about your sperm, he will not ask questions about stuff like how erect you get.