I'm really sorry to hear about your baby. I know peoples word of sympathy has to hurt. My brother passed away at 18 and I remember my mom getting upset about what people would say to her. I am really sorry for your loss. I can only imagine. I am so sorry.
On this topic- Honestly I get so upset hearing my friends talk bad about their kids or that they need a break. It drives me crazy! Honestly I've stopped talking to most of my friends because of this. I cannot wait to have morning sickness, a big belly and have to deal with my child driving me crazy!
Thanks girls- sometimes it's nice to just hear from others dealing with fertility issues. I know people aren't always trying to be insensitive and I'm sure the day to day of having children is stressful too. But when you struggle like everyone on here you don't take anything for granted. Rdh - I am so sorry for your loss.
This is the worst for me. I just lost my son on July 23rd, he was only 7wks old. I can't stand it when people tell me that they appreciate their children so much more now. That hurts so bad. I want ask them why they did not appreciate them in the first place?!
It really seems like good things happen to those who just don't care. My husband and I want to be parents more than anything in the world and it just really upset me when I see people treat their children like they are nothing special.
At least when our turn comes we know that we will have the most loved children around. Good luck ladies and lets try not to let others bother us so much!
Rachel
I would just like to say, 1-I have a co worker that i know did drugs before & during, smoke, & even drank during pregnancy. Come to think about it, I know more than one that have at least smoke & drank. I even have a 20 y/o bro who has 4 kids, 1 is not his, but the others are all with the same person. Not saying he is not a good father, but he is obviously not as financially stable or even stable in his relationship, yet I can't even get pregnant. I just keep hoping & know that maybe obe day it will happen.
Girl I know what you mean. I would gladly welcome morning sickness and the constant need for a nap! Poopie diapers and baby spitup! I would gladly welcome it all! I also can't stand these stupid people that keep acting like all you have to do is bd once or twice and viola! you have a baby on the way! If it were that easy I would have been pregnant a long time ago! So yes I too am tired of those people!