Hello.
I've been thinking about this probably too much.
Here's my story.
I met my soon-to-be husband (July 18th, 2008) on July 18th, 2000. I lost my virginity at 16 and he did as well. We used condoms and I started on the pill a few months after losing my virginity. After being together for two years, we stopped using condoms. A little while after that, I stopped using the Pill.
Since the age of 18, he has been ejaculating inside of me sometimes 1-3 times a week. I am 23 now, almost 24.
Not being on the pill, not using condoms, and having a half sister with endometriosis that almost died giving birth to her 2 lb daughter and having a grandma on my dad's side with ovarian cancer, should I finally get checked out to see if it's me?
Could it be him?
I am not a drug user and neither is he. I used to drink pretty hard when I was 21-22 but that's about the extent of any ill behavior. My periods generally come and go as they please and last for three days (four at the most) and are extremely heavy. It seems the date of getting my period ends up 3-5 days before I expect it.
I've always been stubborn about seeing the doctor because I am so afraid of knowing the truth. I will see the doctor very soon but I just wanted to see if any of you had any advice or the same dilemma.
Is this normal or not? Please let me know. I just wanted to get this out in between wedding planning and school work.