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have been trying to get pregnant going on 13 yrs but nothing. what do I do

I'm 31 almost 32 and have been trying to get pregnant for going on 13 yrs. Im superstitious and have talked to a couple psychics and one says id get pregnant by Christmas where as the other says to get checked for Endometriosis. Crazy I know, and I know ppl will tell me im nuts for doing that but  I havent had any signs for it. All my signs in my dreams and in my meditation point to fertility. My problem is I CAN NOT  go anywhere without money or insurance because thats what all places suggested require upfront no matter what. I was told by my friend to try clomid so im waiting for that to come in. This is my dream and its always ripped away from me when I start my period.Is there ANYTHING at all I can do to increase my chances. PLEASE help, from one woman hoping and praying for so long.
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5837857 tn?1411577085
You might want to consider non profit groups, foundations, and fertility clinics.  Some clinics offer assistance based upon your financial need.  Also, there are foundations that will pay for it.  You might want to google it to find out some names in your area.  You can also contact some fertility clinics and find out if they offer any assistance.

Good luck! :)
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7634030 tn?1407358368
You been trying for 13 years and nothing.  You clearly need to go to the doc.  But since you cant afford it, that is tough.  Also if you cannot afford medical for yourself, if you ever get pregnant, who is gonna foot the bill.  What gonna happen to a baby with no medical insurance if she or he got sick and need doc's medical attention.  Not trying to be harsh here but having a baby is not cheap.  If you cant afford to take care of yourself, you cannot afford to hv a baby.
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I'm 31 and will be 32; in June. Anyway, june 8, I  will be married 13 years and we don't have children. Just had both fallopian tubes unblocked Dec. 1,2014. Hoping to be pregnant soon. U should be able to get insurance now since they have obamacare, actually  they say u suppose to have it, its really cheap. Hope the best for u.I just keep my faith  in Jesus, the Lord said we will have children but he dont give specific times for our blessings. We just trust in him .
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And I can not afford the insurance or anything but like I said, this is my dream to b a mom
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