ttc. this is our 11th month

[ans3511]

we have been ttc for 10 months. this will be the 11th month. We have tried everything. March will be a year. What could be going in with us?

[ans3511]

So I have done some testing and the hubby as well. Come to find out the hubby has low sperm count. We aren't sure what to do next. Any sugesttions?

[ans3511]

Thank you all. Im going to my first gyneo appt nxt week to talk to her and see whats going on. And im sorry for your loose.

[outsidelookinin]

took me and my boyfriend 5 yrs just to have our first together (he has a 12 year old). Mid July of 2010, found out i was preg, only to lose my baby August, 20th, at omly 7wks. I consider you lucky with your 5 year old, I don't have any kids of my own and doubt i ever will. Atleast you know for a fact you can bare children, so it will happen for you again, soon i hope. Goodluck.

[kirbylulu]

I agree with Heather5. Assuming of course this is with the same man. Your doc will probably send you for BW on day three of your cycle to check your hormone levels. It might be a good idea to send DH for a SA too. SSBD Keep us posted!

[ans3511]

We are both under 35. Im going to make an appointment with the gyneo. I have a 5 year old daughter already.

[Heather5]

It might be nothing, as it can take a normal healthy couple up to a year to conceive. However, if you're under 35, and you still haven't gotten pregnant by March, it might be time to discuss this with your obgyn and maybe get a referral to an RE (fertility specialist). They can then run some tests and also suggest treatments to help you conceive.

Best of luck with everything!

(Note: If you're over 35, they suggest seeing an RE earlier, usually after 6 months of trying)