The answer is "possibly". I am very critical of medical malpractice and have sent more than one M.D. to prison to contribute to the community by producing license plates, however in this case there is always a "risk-benefit" situation. I truly believe they were attempting to save your son's life. I am equally sure that every member of the team involves suffers from guilt and will do so forever. When there is clear and present evidence of malpractice I have no problem in going for the throat. In this case I would let sleeping dogs lie. I doubt whether you will ever really know whether this drug administration contributed to you son's death. I am sure the physicians felt that to withold these medications would have resulted in his death. Sometimes there are no good choices. And sometimes there are unanswerable questions. I have a great deal of sympathy for the physician(s) involved. Physicians are not cold-hearted monsters, especially when dealing with babies. You have my condolances, but I am sure that doesn't help very much.
Which forum would be a good one to ask in though?
I can not answer that question. You need to ask it in a different forum. Sorry I could not help you.