Lets all try to count our blessings.Those that are still in our lives need us.Whether it be our children,our parent we still have,brothers,sisters,husbands,wives,our animals.Those that still depend on us, need us strong & healthy,not down & depressed.So lets do the best we can for those that are still here, for we did all we could, for those who are no longer with us.We will never forget them,but there in heaven preparing to celebrate Jesus's birthday with him,what could be better then that.Why let them have all the fun.Let's really give are passed loved one's something to celebrate,our Joy & happiness as well.We can't change the past and we can't live their either!God Bless You All, Jen