How do I cope through the 1st sadaversary

[Mid]

Its so Hard to believe that my sister was murdered a  year ago this Saturday the 9th

She will never see her kids grow up,  her kids will never feel there mothers hugs again

My parents will never see there baby daughter again!

I will never share those sister moments as she was my only sister she was the baby....


I really dont know how I am going to get through this weekend!






ITs been a rollercoaster ride for everyone

I am finding it so hard getting through this whole thing

On Monday the "GRUB" who did this pleaded guilty to murder thank God there will be no trial

now we just wait for a date for sentencing .

Mid
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[star641]

oh Hun im so sorry for your loss ,......your sister will give you the strength to get through the day ,...i can feel your pain !but believe me you will cope! ,the heart is a strong thing ,.
i know you miss and love her so much ,and life will never be the same again for anyone of you but look at it this way ,...she is in heaven now with god ,..he !!! will never get into heaven he will be judged for what he has done to you, your family ,and to your sister ,.
i know her kids are in good hands as your sister does ,...she is looking down on all of you ,.....you will meet her some day remember that ,...two sisters together ;)again ,
try be happy if not for you but for her children ,.all my love xx}}}}}}}}}}

[healing07]

Hello,
I m so sorry for heard about your sister. Its such a horrible tragedy for you. I know its very hard and tough time for you and understand your feelings. Lost of our loved one is very painful to us. I lost my uncle 3 years ago and its really hard time for me. I know your parents lost their daughter and her kids are alone without their mom. I just pray to God for you and for your family.

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[alicat007]

I believe God takes care of all karma. I don't really worry about the man who took my daughter's life away. I believe once you die you have to take on all the things you did wrong in this life and feel the pain you caused others and then you have to re-learn that lesson.  I know he knows how we all feel about our loss of our Lori and I know everything happens for a reason.  I have learned a lot since Lori has gone from this world. I miss her. I Love Her So!

[Judy246]

What a difficult and horrific experience for you and your family. There is a website call "Compassionate Friends" for people who have lossed loved ones to murder. I truly believe he will pay for what he has done, but there is also a higher justice. One day at the end of his sorry life, he will stand before God and will be held accountable for his actions. I hope he burns in hell....Judy

p.s. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[Mid]

Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers.

It was very hard to get through that weekend
it is getting harder everytime I have to go to a court hearing.

Thank again
Mid

[Caroline565]

Mid, I am so sorry for your loss. It is actually more than a loss, having to deal with a murder or suicide must be extremely difficult. I just don't know what to say to you except that I will say a prayer for you and your family who are all obviously struggling to deal with this sad situation. Please try and remain strong. My thoughts are with you.