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:( LACERATION HANDJOB

This is my story,first i'm from malaysia,i check alot of china website,but they answer is so confurse...Some say Yes,Some Say NO..so i been here,i'm female,this year 24 from malaysia,so apologies my english is not so good at all,OK..i'll start my story,i'm going to marry with my Boy friend this October 2010,But he just tell me a bad news,he might be expose Hiv,i'm shock,i ask what the hell you done?he say he have feel boring to me,so he went to have a place massage and....have a HANDJOB !!!Then he say he feel sorry to me and hope the marry is can be continue as well,But he tell me another bad news,he said after the handjob,he check the girl..got both..one Malay and another one is thailand girl..He went to a same place handjob two time with diffence girl in last week!he told me both of they hand he got check after the handjob,but bad ...the second girl have a big and long Laceration in her hand-arm there..i think he are talking about wrist...Then he said the girl say is come by accident...But didnt tell him how long it did...i ask he got notice blood or not he told me that that time he didnt wear a spec..so cant clearly see that have any blood or not..but he sure that is a big and long laceration even the girl also say yes,it done by hospital after the car accident.he keep apologies to me.i ask he how long did the laceration be do you know?he say donno..what also donno..but he keep say love me such thing..but truely..i Love him so too..but now we dont even dare to near each other..don even dare to sex,kiss,hug..we feel have a wall between us.Expect..Do you think that he is big risks?or low risks about the laceration handjob...can we still be marry after this exposed?
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Vance2335 had reply me no 1 woman will handjob a guy during her arm was bleeding..so that laceration count bleeding or not...When you all said fresh laceration..How is the consider Fresh?so it mean it can be a risks if the woman laceration is bleeding?
Sorry long gas here...just worry :)
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NO RISK.
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Yes...I know there was just a handjob,but...still hard to accept it,i hope you can understand girls heart feeling,anyway mike_no..do you got take a look finish about my added question?just above you about the blood and cut..Sure no risks ?
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Annie,

It's okay. Boys can be very notorious when it comes down to cheap thrills! Your macho man was still modest enough to not do any thing wild and moreover he's been honest to you. Come on! He just had a hand job, pretty okay.

He never really had any risk, one can't acquire HIV like that. There is nothing to worry about. He doesn't need an HIV testing and Yes, you both can certainly go ahead an get married with out no fear, he was never at a risk and there's nothing to be bothered about.

Good Luck!
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But vance2335,just concern..Few days ago i had oral sex to him,and maybe there was too rapid..i did bite his penis,and my finger nail scratch his penis during the masterbated..so my worry is,How If when the girl have a laceration on her arm,wrist and might have some of her blood on hand and handjob his penis have cut and scratch?i know this looking like some irrational thinking,but his penis really have cut..so even she hand got blood and handjob my boy friend penis have cut or what etc..even like this..Still no risks?
Do you sure that he no need any test and we can be safe and enjoy sex and ready our marry?
sorry the long story and question...God bless You vance...
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He never had a rsk...being masterbated no matter what is not a risk and no woman is going to masterbate a guy who has a bleeding arm.
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