possibility of hiv

[sheraton_123]

HI i had sex with protection 4 months ago and after ejaculation i found that some of my semens flowing out from top of the condom, i felt so worried and cleaned immediately with water. after 10 days from this i had high fever with itching skin and body pain and it lasts only for two to three days . and now after almost 3.5 months i am suffering with mild sore throat also i feel that i lost 4 kg of weight. apart from this i am ok no tiredness or fatigue . pls some one suggest what i hve to do as i feel so worried and not sleeping during nights,

[sheraton_123]

iam sure it was not the partner fluid when i removed my penis from her vagina i found my sperm flowing out from the top of condom , as after ejauclaiton i had two strokes more inside her

[sleeplessnights34]

Did you check the condom ?
And by checking, I don't mean "did you think there was a hole ?", did you actually see a noticeable rupture in the condom ???

[sheraton_123]

no i didnt c any hole in it ony thingi i observed that some of the my fluid came out form the top of it and wht  concerns me more is my health illness happen just after ten days from this

[sleeplessnights34]

All you need to know is that you had no risk from this encounter. As I said before, your condom did not break, and it did not fall off during intercourse. All that matters is that the tip of your penis was covered during intercourse. Your illness has nothing to do with HIV.

NO RISK.

[sheraton_123]

thanks dear

[sheraton_123]

is there any chance that vaginal fluid can enter thru mouth of condom and get mixed with sperm plzzz suggest on this

[sleeplessnights34]

If by "mouth of the condom", you mean the base, NO. if a condom is tight enough to cover you without slipping off, then it's tight enough to stop fluids seeping in.
You are safe. Stop thinking about this encounter and stay safe.

[sleeplessnights34]

It wasn't your semen. It was your partner's fluids. Condoms don't break like that, meaning that holes don't appear in them the way you describe. They just split, and it's very obvious. You had no risk.

[sheraton_123]

do u think it can have any risk of hiv as i had fever and chills after ten days from this scene.

[sheraton_123]

What is the cause of my illness initially I had fever with skin itching and now after 4 months of time I have mild sore throat and my body is always hot but no fever y is it so.i never had such symptoms before in my life.

[dudi_scared]

do you have tested for hiv??

[iommi]

I Re-read your post.
Condoms break apart when they fail.
However you checked yours after sex and had an issue with a possible hole. I won't debate that with you because I wasn't there. So based on that it seems like a small potential of a risk exists.
This is my last post here.
You are past 4 months and a test "now is conclusive."
If all you describe was actually ARS you would test positive.
Why keep asking questions when a test now will give you 100% certainty?
Take care.

[sheraton_123]

there was no hole or broken of condom  atall i checked myself , i just found little sperm coming out from the  mouth of condom thts it.

[sheraton_123]

Can anyone advise here

[sheraton_123]

What are the possible symptoms of hiv after 3 months

[sheraton_123]

STis or Std's curable  and what normally are they

[iommi]

Respectfully we discuss HIV here.
Please refer to the proper forum for other STD or STI questions.

[iommi]

Your anxiety is causing you a lot of stress.
If you had an actual risk you are not describing classic ars.
No one here can tell you what is causing your symptoms.
You are at 4 months into this situation.
Just take an antibody test for a conclusive result so you can stop worrying about HIV.

[sheraton_123]

I am waiting for u r reply

[sheraton_123]

Does hot feeling of forehead,neck and face without fever symptom of hiv. Plzz suggest and advice.