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Am i have risk
I went to an adult beauty shop in Japan last week for a full body oil push. I was completely naked, she was wearing panties.I was lying on the bed. She sat on my bum，and gave me a back rub.
when she sat down I felt a bit of wetness on my bum.I'm not sure if it was her secretions as I have perianal eczema and scratch a lot, not sure if it was broken at the time, I'm afraid of her secretions touching my perianal eczema. I didn't touch her the whole time.Because it's illegal for me to touch her.she ended up using her hand to help me beat it out.We didn't do anything else the whole time. am I at risk of contracting hiv this way?
I'm mindful of the fact that I can't get hiv from hand jobs, but i am concerned that if it was her discharge that touch my perianal eczema at the time, would I be at risk of infection?
Please help me, thank you.
when she sat down I felt a bit of wetness on my bum.I'm not sure if it was her secretions as I have perianal eczema and scratch a lot, not sure if it was broken at the time, I'm afraid of her secretions touching my perianal eczema. I didn't touch her the whole time.Because it's illegal for me to touch her.she ended up using her hand to help me beat it out.We didn't do anything else the whole time. am I at risk of contracting hiv this way?
I'm mindful of the fact that I can't get hiv from hand jobs, but i am concerned that if it was her discharge that touch my perianal eczema at the time, would I be at risk of infection?
Please help me, thank you.
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The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.
As you can see, you did not do any of the activities on the list of risks.
If you do not engage in any of the activities I mentioned above with someone HIV+ or whose HIV status is unknown to you, you will NEVER have to worry about getting HIV. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.
As you can see, you did not do any of the activities on the list of risks.
If you do not engage in any of the activities I mentioned above with someone HIV+ or whose HIV status is unknown to you, you will NEVER have to worry about getting HIV. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
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Thank you very much for your help, but I did notice https://www.medhelp.org/aids-hiv/articles/Can-I-Get-HIV-From-Casual-Contacts-Like-Hugging-or-Touching/2577
That says HIV can spread if Vaginal fluid fluids come in contact with damaged or cracked tissue such as cuts on the skin - the skin must be open.
I don't mean to question your response.
This puzzles me, is this meant to say that there is a potential risk but no cases have actually been reported?
That says HIV can spread if Vaginal fluid fluids come in contact with damaged or cracked tissue such as cuts on the skin - the skin must be open.
I don't mean to question your response.
This puzzles me, is this meant to say that there is a potential risk but no cases have actually been reported?
So, in the 'real world' no one gets HIV unless it is one of the ways Curfew shared with you. There is theoretical risk and that means that it can listed in articles like the one you linked but that there are not cases of HIV actually traced to that situation. As long as you wear a condom for vaginal or anal sex (intact and covering the head of your penis) and do not share IV needles to inject drugs, you will not have to worry about HIV.
Thank you for your reply. But I got several mouth ulcers on my palate on day 10 and they are very painful. I have not gotten mouth ulcers on my palate before, do I need to get tested for hiv?
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (maybe blood, maybe cuts anywhere, hand, eczema, secretions, etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
I'm sure you know the meaning of the word "only" but your last response to the previous advice makes it seem as if you don't. Move on.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
I'm sure you know the meaning of the word "only" but your last response to the previous advice makes it seem as if you don't. Move on.
Diseases and health conditions do not follow a schedule otherwise no one would ever get anything they didn't have before - therefore you should never be surprised when a new one like ulcers pops up. See doc if you want mouth ulcer treatment instead of continuing to fixate on hiv just because it is the only disease you can think of.
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