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PANICK WITH HIV STATUS

I had protected sex with a russian CSW on April 26 th 2012 at a brothel and the moment i entered my penis
i lost erection and the condom came half way away but still covering the top...Again it was pulled back and
i entered inside and the same time ejaculated without forcing it for the second time...it was merely two to four seconds and she rolled back and  ermoved the condom with a tissue..

After nearly 10 days my tongues became white and while scratched with the teeth i could see the hair/fur like thing
was rising with a sticky saliva and had red eyes as well with an infection below the white part,after  i had a night sweat,whistling in the ears and back pain....
from the third to the fourth week i had all symtoms like tonsils,join pains,muscle twitch al over,rashes and sinus..
i do not have dioreah or fever but had pain on back of the head might be related to sinus,i started waiting loss
around 3.5 kg with muscle loss as well..

My marriage is nearing and i dont knpow what to do,i checkedd for ELISA after two weeks of exposure with negative result which i know is not conclusive,still i cant go for a test in middleeast as i will lose my JOB which affects an entire family depending on me with lot of commitments....

Could you pls advice if all these are ARS symptoms which might lead to HIV positive result????
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480448 tn?1426948538
You never had an exposure!  That would be like a virgin convinced she was pregnant!

Take your test, the only one who be surprised it's negative will be you!  Then, you can finally let it rest!
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100% sure really, based on what facts no, paranoia for sure. Dont be shocked by your negative result
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Thx

Dear All,

Thank you all for ur valuable feedbacks....
No one likes to be HIV+,but am 100 prcnt sure i have got it,so take
from me,ARS symptoms can beabove mentioned....U will feel all these then make sure and go for details test and start medication the sooner possible....If u do not have any other disorders and got all these symptoms,ARS symptoms do come atleast for soime percent of people...
But i do agree some of them get 2 or type symptoms due to stress..

Candidiasis comes only coz of HIV if you had a recent exposure......

Anyway i will come back with the result and upto that i agree with all my friends who have commented here and they are doing their levle best here for this cause and i salute them allll...

Hope to cu all soon...byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee


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Their are no Typical ARS symptoms, thats why people who have a risk need to take a HIV test. If you understand that, then you will take in mind you didnt have a risk of HIV, and if you actually read the replys and understood them you wouldnt need to post again, so re-read the thread and accept the great advice you have had. HIV is no mystery, its quite simple. Dont have unprotected sex and your fine :) You didnt, so guess what your fine.
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Hi Teak,

Then what are typical ARS symptoms???How they show up generally??
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As you were advised you didn't have an exposure and you symptoms don't have anything to do with HIV. If you feel unwell see your doctor. You do not have an HIV concern.
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Nursegirl,Many thanks for ur update...

I didn't say i had loss of apetite,i t have mentioned unusual hunger and wanted to ask if this was any other cause of ARS as i heard durinf seroconversion body burns excess fat and results in unusual hunger
ho much is this correct???
Second thing apart from the pprotected sex and condom slip i have touched her vaginal fluids while checking if there was a condom break...
can it be another reason may be i have touched my eyes or nose soon after the exposure...my  

I wont be asking too much but atleast can you explain typical ARS symptoms????


As i heard there can be no symptoms for HIV infection but the y could it happend with all symptoms a well,am not arguing.atleast post some typical common ARS symptoms....

I request u alll for a reply????????????
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480448 tn?1426948538
First, loss of appetite is NOT an HIV symptom, wanted to clear that up.

scorpio...you did NOT have a risk.  We can not diagnose medical conditions over the internet.  If you are concerned about your health, see your doctor.  Whatever it is, it is not related to HIV.  You never placed yourself at risk.  Most of your symptoms sound anxiety related due to you being hyperfocused on every little thing.  Most of the stuff you think is abnormal has probably always been there, and you either just never notices it, or you are overanalyzing it due to stress.

We can't be of any more help on this forum...we've given you a risk assessment and told you that you do not have an HIV concern.  Please move along.
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Teak can you pls advice on these symptoms wise ........;will ARS symptom include extreme hunger??
as a rare case can it happend any wayz??

Why all these symtoms then?i have never overlooked my body and never had helath probles except uric acid upsets,suddenly after exposure why
all these symptoms,could th condom had slipped inside  while fully while taking back ???""i remember she was on top and i didnt had much of the time inside her...initialy inserted it rolled back over half again,then pulled back fully and inserted and ejaculated same time and taken back""""
that was the end...........Was there a hole??

Can the white scrappy stuff on inner tongue caused by sharing the bottle
from the russian?

Moreover why i have lost the smoothnes and elasticity and dried skin on
legs and finger skin seems to be shrinked and pale

can veins project as i have on the same on my limbs and even vericos like
stuffs and i have shed around 2 to three kgs during these two months
but have a good apetitie still and still weight still isnt increasing

I am confused with all these moreover the brothel was one of the nastiest place available localy which i didn't knew....

Am scareddd and stressed,,,,,pls can you answer my confusions a little bit details going by symptoms plzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Thanks
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Strain caused because of excess googling on hiv might caused red eyes. I have no idea about other diseases but definitely they are not hiv symptoms
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THX dude,what about red eyes,i look horrible now with red eyes,red eyes and white
tongue came in two weeks......

COULD this be CMV or MONO??? or ACUTE HIV itself>>


Teak........Pls your comments as well  in detail.......
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Extreme hunger is not an ars symptom. On contrary lack of appetite is a symptom. You were already told you are hiv negative. Your symptoms are due to anxiety. And after that incident you started observing your body and finding all those things which are already present even before
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Thanks for the update;will ARS symptom include extreme hunger??
as a rare casecan it happend any wayz??

Why all these symtoms then?i have never overlooked my body and never had helath probles except uric acid upsets,suddenly after exposure why
all these symptoms,could th condom had slipped inside  while fully while taking back ???""i remember she was on top and i didnt had much of the time inside her...initialy inserted it rolled back over half again,then pulled back fully and inserted and ejaculated same time and taken back""""
that was the end...........Was there a hole??

Can the white scrappy stuff on inner tongue caused by sharing the bottle
from the russian?

Moreover why i have lost the smoothnes and elasticity and dried skin on
legs and finger skin seems to be shrinked and pale

can veins project as i have on the same on my limbs and even vericos like
stuffs and i have shed around 2 to three kgs during these two months
but have a good apetitie still and still weight still isnt increasing

I am confused with all these moreover the brothel was one of the nastiest place available localy which i didn't knew....

Am scareddd and stressed,,,,,pls can you answer my confusions a little bit details going by symptoms plzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Thanks
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It's not HIV, you never had an exposure. If you are concerned see your doctor.
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am having unusual hunger this days as well,what could be this.....

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stomach problems caused by stress can by your problem
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Thanks dear! But pls advice why the hell i have all these symptoms,am losing fat from my body fingers and feels i am losing my skin elasticity
apart from the normal look,why my tongue is white,coaty and furry when scraped....I have headaches till now....my legs aches while a small drive
can this much drasti changes happend?? Am i going for a fully blown AIDS???

Pls advice.....
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No risk from the Russian minx--csw because the condom protected the head of your penis even if it rolled half way down,symptoms unless they are very high fevers or rash mean jack sh#t.You're safe.
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