Aa
Can i relax?
hi everyone
Well i am a male of 26 from India.I got physically involved with a women of 40.She is a friend through common friend.We had been talking over the phone etc from the past 4-6 months etc and i go to her house also and have met her husband and her children too.
Due to sum circumstances we had sexual intercourse... i was unprotected.
the whole incindent last for like 3-4 minutes or so...and i was in her for like 1-2 minutes.
i even talked to her abt hiv etc and she said that she had been tested already for hiv ...recently as she had done a complete body blood check up and in that hiv was there too.
I got a lil scared still and asked her to have another test etc... she felt bad (i know that) but she had the Hiv test and the result was negative.
i was relived.
now what i doubt is that.. Could she have asked sum1 else in her place to have the test? cud she have shown me a false report? i even confirmed from the lab that there was a lady by the name of XXXXX who has had the hiv test and the test is negative.
shud i worry?i am fully confident that she isnt in her window period as she was not involved physically with anyone...atleast not from the past 1 year or more... as she was in depression....
so guys pls help me out...
am i safe?
Well i am a male of 26 from India.I got physically involved with a women of 40.She is a friend through common friend.We had been talking over the phone etc from the past 4-6 months etc and i go to her house also and have met her husband and her children too.
Due to sum circumstances we had sexual intercourse... i was unprotected.
the whole incindent last for like 3-4 minutes or so...and i was in her for like 1-2 minutes.
i even talked to her abt hiv etc and she said that she had been tested already for hiv ...recently as she had done a complete body blood check up and in that hiv was there too.
I got a lil scared still and asked her to have another test etc... she felt bad (i know that) but she had the Hiv test and the result was negative.
i was relived.
now what i doubt is that.. Could she have asked sum1 else in her place to have the test? cud she have shown me a false report? i even confirmed from the lab that there was a lady by the name of XXXXX who has had the hiv test and the test is negative.
shud i worry?i am fully confident that she isnt in her window period as she was not involved physically with anyone...atleast not from the past 1 year or more... as she was in depression....
so guys pls help me out...
am i safe?
Yes i saw her test reults.She had the test the same day i told her to and she showed me the results the next day in the evening.
i did not see her do the test.
i saw her results.
i confirmed with the lab too that there was a lady by the name xxx who has had a hiv test.
i did not see her do the test.
i saw her results.
i confirmed with the lab too that there was a lady by the name xxx who has had a hiv test.
Did you see her do the test? Did you see the test results? If you want to know your status TEST.
but she has had the test right? she hasnt had any SEX from the past 1 yr...
now?
now?
Teak is right you had unprotected sex this puts you if risk. you must get tested. a test at 6-8 weeks will give you a good indication and then a test at 3 months would be conclusive. i wish you the best of luck :)
How about UNPROTECTED sex. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out.
why do u think i am at risk?
Get youself tested.
I even asked her driver that did she go to the lab etc... and he said yes....
i tried every possible way to find out that YES she is the one who has got herself tested....
and what ever i tried has gone in my way ...luckily...
i am not doubting her ... its just that anxiouness....
wht do i do??
dunt tell me i need to test... pls..
she wasnt a pros ... nor does she go arnd looking out for boys/men ... etc
i tried every possible way to find out that YES she is the one who has got herself tested....
and what ever i tried has gone in my way ...luckily...
i am not doubting her ... its just that anxiouness....
wht do i do??
dunt tell me i need to test... pls..
she wasnt a pros ... nor does she go arnd looking out for boys/men ... etc
Get yourself tested. Unless you went with her to get tested you'll never know.
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