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Dr HHH / Dr Hook - Save me

Dear Dr HHH,

I'm married and have a 6 month old baby.

Recently in thailand, i went for a regular massage and the CSW gave me protected oral. It was rough and my penis hurt thanks to her teeth ( guess she was an amateur ). She licked my scrotum and sucked my balls I got a oil massage done. Before she could even start, she had asked me big money for which i refused and negotiated for less. Guess she dint like it.

After that, next day, i went to a CSW for vaginal sex. Asked her if she has HIV for which she said NO. She gave me protected oral, sucked my scrotum. I just got intimate and hugged her closely. Since she had just one condom,and that was used for oral, i couldnt have sex.

Soon after a 4 days, i got a severe sore throat, with white spots in my ovula and red spots on the mouth roof. ( i drank cold beer and smoked during my stay in thailand ). They went off in 15 days. My nodes in the neck had become big and pained a lot. I have started feeling the nodes in my arms and groin area ( after reading the symptoms ) and feel them too.

no fever, no rash. I had lost my appetite though for some days. I'm sure i dont have any other std's as no visual outbreaks or symptoms.

1) Can the symptoms be related to ARS
2) What are my HIV chances
3) Do people try to spread HIV deliberately if the customers annoy them / saddistic behavior.
4) Do i need to test. iam **** scared.
5) Can i have unprotected sex with my wife ?
6) Is strep, a symptom of HIV , i think i had strep
7) I'm an overly anxious person - your patient answering will do a world of good to my mind and regular well being. I love you guys.
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Teak, i know your understanding in this field is immense. Dont get annoyed by my above questions. Kindly do let me know my risks. Me getting a serious strep with white and red spots in my mouth right after 4-5 days after the above exposure cant be a coincidence. I havent got strep in my entire life. iam 30 yrs old. Please patiently answer teak. I love my family and daughter. dying of guilt and anxiety every moment
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1-no
2-none
3-nope
4-you dont need a test as you did not have an exposure
5-yes
6-no
7-no problem as you are just very anxious..you never had an exposure as you did not have unprotected sex...oral sex,suckin scrotum does not pose a risk for transmission
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To get either doctor to answer your questions you'll need to post in the Expert HIV Prevention Forum. You can find the link on the right hand side of the page.
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