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HIV risk from oral and fingering from cut inside vagina.
Hi,
Feb 28th I had a threesome with a friend and one of his female friends when I was visiting New York. (both are of African American descent)
He had been tested in December and is safe and was clean, I had penetrative sex with him protected no ejaculation and was only a few minutes, as far as I am aware the condom was intact but slipped off when he pulled out of me.
I performed digital sex on the female and she did the same to me, as well as her performing oral sex on me but I didn't perform any oral sex on her. While she was fingering me I bled however did not feel any pain and had no idea I was bleeding until a bit later when I saw a few streaks of blood on the sheets and asked what happened. I know he did finger her at some point and would have fingered me after, not sure how soon after but I obviously had been cut at some point so I have no idea.
They both said they were clean when I asked and he keeps ensuring me that she is someone who I can trust would check themselves but I'm just so stressed out and at the end of May it will be 3 months so I'll be able to get a free test to find out.
I have been trying to read more about my risks but it's hard to find information that helps my situation.
I've been tested 2.5 weeks after the incident because my discharge had a slight change but the nurse said nothing was abnormal and could have been a bit of bacterial vaginosis from an imbalance. These tests came back negative for everything but it was only 2.5 weeks after it all happened.
To top this off, about 2 weeks after my tonsils were sore and had a white coating on them, the doctor gave me antibiotics and it went away but 4 weeks after the incident I had a sore throat and a cold for about 3 days.
If anyone can help me put my risk into perspective I'd be very grateful, the job I am currently going for requires extensive testing and I'm so worried I won't be able to get in if I have caught HIV from this.
Feb 28th I had a threesome with a friend and one of his female friends when I was visiting New York. (both are of African American descent)
He had been tested in December and is safe and was clean, I had penetrative sex with him protected no ejaculation and was only a few minutes, as far as I am aware the condom was intact but slipped off when he pulled out of me.
I performed digital sex on the female and she did the same to me, as well as her performing oral sex on me but I didn't perform any oral sex on her. While she was fingering me I bled however did not feel any pain and had no idea I was bleeding until a bit later when I saw a few streaks of blood on the sheets and asked what happened. I know he did finger her at some point and would have fingered me after, not sure how soon after but I obviously had been cut at some point so I have no idea.
They both said they were clean when I asked and he keeps ensuring me that she is someone who I can trust would check themselves but I'm just so stressed out and at the end of May it will be 3 months so I'll be able to get a free test to find out.
I have been trying to read more about my risks but it's hard to find information that helps my situation.
I've been tested 2.5 weeks after the incident because my discharge had a slight change but the nurse said nothing was abnormal and could have been a bit of bacterial vaginosis from an imbalance. These tests came back negative for everything but it was only 2.5 weeks after it all happened.
To top this off, about 2 weeks after my tonsils were sore and had a white coating on them, the doctor gave me antibiotics and it went away but 4 weeks after the incident I had a sore throat and a cold for about 3 days.
If anyone can help me put my risk into perspective I'd be very grateful, the job I am currently going for requires extensive testing and I'm so worried I won't be able to get in if I have caught HIV from this.
Fingering and oral sex are not a risk for HIV. Condom slip off is not a risk. Never take anyone's word that they are tested. If he had HIV he is only negative three months ago. African Americans unfortunately have the highest rates of HIV infection.
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