you have been assessed and advised regarding your risk and testing. you being scared to test should be addressed on the hiv anxiety community forum. this forum has done it's job.
Yeah I know I'm traumatized now. I am so overly paranoid that I have everything now too :(
I'm pretty sure 99% sure I don't have hiv, but I am honestly scared to get tested because if I have it I will probably kill myself. But, If my bf doesn't have it, odds are that I don't too because we have done everything and I have gotten blood on him.. and I didn't know I had hsv until a month ago that's why we always had sex unprotected.. luckily I never had outbreaks so I didn't give it to him.. and the unprotected sex incident was a guy I was dating and he took the condom off midway saying "we don't need this" and for some reason I can't remember much about that night after... it's just scaring me because I wonder how many girls he said that and did that to....
the professionals on this site say that there is no hiv risk from unprotected oral sex, there has been no proof of it ever being transmitted that way, so that rules the rape out because the guy used a condom. your boyfriend used a condom, but the guy you dated took it off once gave you hsv. if you have an std, you shouldn't be having unprotected sex with someone, it's just not a good thing to do. but, if your boyfriend has tested negative, and you 'always' have unprotected sex with him, there is a good, but not definate, chance that you don't have hiv. 3 years of having unprotected sex with someone, in my eyes, would usually result in a transmission of an std, but i guess from what lizzies saying is there is a very slim chance that it wouldn't happen, but from what i see, if you've been having sex with this guy for 3 years unprotected, and you've not given him hiv, then i have a feeling that you don't have it.
just get tested, and put your mind at rest. you should maybe look into getting counseling about the rape incident, because without it you could be permenantly mentaly scarred.
ugh thanks for scaring me more :(
test at 3 months post exposure for conclusive results
as far as the rape goes...nothing that you have described put you at risk
your current b/f has tested negative...he cant give you something he doesnt have
the guy who took off his condom? that was unprotected sex
the ONLY way to know YOUR status is by testing.
your b/f's test only confirms that HE doesnt have hiv. it is "possible" for someone to be infected and not infect their partner...even after years of having unprotected sex...so his test does not PROVE...without a shadow of doubt... that you arent infected.
test to know your status.