HIV from Oral sex?

[varinder75]

I gave oral sex (licked anus/vagina for around 1 minute) to a sex worker around 3 months ago and I had some symptoms which started around 2 weeks after exposure which includes fever up to 100 for 2 days .... itching and redness due to itching (lasted for 2-3 weeks), Felt extremes fatigue, weakness and low fever around 99.3 on/off for more than 2 months. Now I feel better almost like normal but sometimes lightheadness.

Q. I got tested for HIV antibody around 7 weeks after exposure it was negative. Some says at 6 weeks most infection will be detected and very unlikely to change at 12 weeks time. Is this True?

Q. Now As 3 months has completed should I get tested to assure myself that I don't have HIV infection or my 7 week test is enough. It really hard and fearful to go and get tested again.

Q. I am not having sex with my wife from almost 3 months due to this fear. Is it sex safe to have unprotected sex with my wife or Should I get tested before having sex with her to make sure?

[Teak]

What part of "you didn't have an exposure" is it you don't comprehend?

[varinder75]

Test after 12 weeks is 100% conclusive for everybody regardless of what medicine he/she is taking because I am taking medicine for depression/anxiety from last 1 month.

[Teak]

I don't know how normal that is, but you didn't have an HIV exposure.

[varinder75]

Thanks Teak, So I can live normal life without worrying about HIV.

[Teak]

You do not need an HIV test. You never had an exposure.

[varinder75]

Hello Teak,

mikey29287 suggested to get tested before having sex with wife and as per you I don't need testing.. Whom should I go with... I am confused now.... I really need lot of courage to go for testing again its hard.

[Teak]

You never had an exposure and don't need testing for HIV.

[varinder75]

Its really hard to pass the time after giving the blood for test and wait for results.

[mikey29287]

However oral sex isn't a concern for Hiv.