Hi, respectful doctors and members. After consideration I decided to post another question which is a whole different situation I experienced about two weeks ago. I'm gay and I met a man online and went to his place with an hiv test paper. While having him tested, we made out. He french kissed, give each other unprotected oral sex in a 69 position(well, maybe it's not important). He then licked my anus and sticked his tongue quite deep in my anus. Just before I went his place, I washed my anus and accidently made a cut with the tube I used. Anyway, When we switched position, I glanced at the test paper and it had two bars. The result was positive. I was calm and quiet, went to the bathroom, washed my anus again, but no deep. After that, I had him tested with another test paper and it's positive again. The quality of the test paper is guranteed. So he's definitely hiv+.
The answers in the forum is that the saliva is not infectious. But in my case, we both brushed our teeth and had gums, will that change things? And will saliva with hiv virus affect me because it's in my rectum (unlike small cuts on hands, this is membrane) or the cut on the anus? Even if he didn't reach the rectum, when I washed my anus I might have pushed the saliva deeper...
Thank you.