First of all thank you for this great site. Over the last week it has helped me a lot as I read many pages of questions and to a certain point claimed down.
Last week I went for a massage thinking it would be a RMT. Although my bill said and was signed by an RTM(it was signed ahead of time), the person whom gave me my was not RMT. He was a great but towards the end his touches became a bit erotic and stupid me didn't get alarmed as I was half sleep/relax mode.
He went to massage my inner thighs and eventually touched my penis and gave it 2-3 stokes. I stopped him and he went out to get a new towel(i assume it was new). Meanwhile I managed to ejaculate and by the time he came back I was done. (don't ask but I just felt like that.)
He then cleaned it with the towel and some tissue.(not sure if he touched the tip of my penis). Right after I used hand sanitizer to clean my hands and penis. (it did burn due to alcohol). Right after I went to pharmacy and got myself a 1/2 liter of hydrogen peroxide and washed my penis but with pouring and also rubbing a tissue to clean the tissues. Once home I showered and applied a bit of hydrocrotozone cream. ( I had this cream as I had a few rashes before on my penis till that date which I got tested for and was nothing. I believe it was too much masturbation or fungus. Doctor didn't find anything when he did blood and urine test.)
Next day I went to a walk in clinic and told the doctor above. She said that posed no risk. Next day I went to another doctor and told him the story. He mentioned that in order to get any HIV, you need his hands to be bleeding. He said I can have a STD check but have to wait at least 2 weeks. (I have the list now with me). I then checked here and most of you said any STD is really low chance via handjob/touch.
I called the guy and he said he is a nice guy and clean. He apologized and assured me that he was free of any STDs. I have asked him to go get tested but not sure if he will do that for me. He said he never touched my cum and that I came myself.
Anyways, please let me know what you think is the risk of HIV or any STDS here. There was no saliva and he was fully clothed the entire time and he said he had washed his hands before. I have no burn(had it for a day but it went away) or discharge.
The reason I ask is I have a bit of sore throat and also stomach upset. There is no darreria however.
I really appreciate it and please don't attack me. I will also go for a STD test tomorrow and see if anything was out of norm. I am so scared. I even told my girlfriend and she understands and assured me I should be okay.
Thank you!