kyon doosre ke phatte main taang adataa hai ... shekhar...
you put yourself at risk by having unprotected sex...not once, but twice.
you can do a test at 6-8 weeks and get a good indication of your status...but according to the guidelines, you must follow that up with a test at 3 months for a CONCLUSIVE result.
DO NOT GIVE ADVICE UNLESS IT IS CORRECT ADVICE...WHICH YOUR IS NOT ! ! !
At first ur partner should be free from HIV, any way, It all depends on when the affair took place and when has ur flu like symptoms appeared. The duration of a hiv window period is 6 months. If ur symptoms prevail for more than 14 days then its time to check out ur doctor. The test made after 3 months of the exposure would give the right results than before. So wait and get tested accordingly.