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He pulled out

I am having significant marital problems and have recently had 2 affairs, not using a condom in either case.  I know- really stupid.  In both cases he pulled out before he came.  The first affair was about a month ago.  Yesterday I started having severe flu-like symptoms, and I am really freaking out about my risk of having contracted HIV.  I am going to get tested tomorrow, but does anyone have words of wisdom to help me get through the night?
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kyon doosre ke phatte main taang adataa hai ... shekhar...
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186166 tn?1385259382
you put yourself at risk by having unprotected sex...not once, but twice.

you can do a test at 6-8 weeks and get a good indication of your status...but according to the guidelines, you must follow that up with a test at 3 months for a CONCLUSIVE result.
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186166 tn?1385259382
DO NOT GIVE ADVICE UNLESS IT IS CORRECT ADVICE...WHICH YOUR IS NOT ! ! !
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At first ur partner should be free from HIV, any way, It all depends on when the affair took place and when has ur flu like symptoms appeared. The duration of a hiv window period is 6 months. If ur symptoms prevail for more than 14 days then its time to check out ur doctor. The test made after 3 months of the exposure would give the right results than before. So wait and get tested accordingly.
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