PLEASE assess my risk

[Harrison1989]

Guys

Two weeks ago, I had mutual unprotected oral sex and protected anal sex (Condom was fully covered) with a HIV positive man. This guy just informed me this information. I am now in panic completely.

I know that being sucked is not a risk for HIV. But how about giving oral sex? My oral condition was generally good on that day. But recently I am having some gum issues especially today I got an ulcer in the right deep side of my gum with a little bleeding.

Assuming my gum was also a little bit bleeding on the date I had sexual activity with him. What is the risk for me?

Both of us did not ejaculated into each other's mouths. However, I had a lot of pre-ejaculation fluids. I am not sure whether he also had that in that moment. If there was pre-fluids in my mouth, what would happen?

I am looking forward your kind helps.

Best wishes

[Vance2335]

You have already been advised you had no risk, but also advised that if you didn't believe it then to test and what test to take and when. Nothing else we can tell you

[Harrison1989]

Dear friends

I am developing some symptoms now like dry throat and oral ulcers. I am very worried now. I am very sure the condom was not broken and we just had one second anal sex with condom but the oral sex is not protected.

He is confirmed as HIV positive without any treatment now. I am very worried about that. There was no ejaculation but the pre-ejaculation fluids I really think I have touched.

And his penis was in a deep position in my throat and rub my throat. Is that possible the precum would go through and being absorbed my the throat mucous membrane causing infection?

[JamesD1991]

No.... I said "if you're worried,"

[Harrison1989]

I see. So this is still defended as a risk?

[JamesD1991]

If you're worried, take a DUO test at 28 days

[Harrison1989]

Thank you very much.
Today my ulcer on the right gum getting more serious. Assuming it was there one the date I had oral sex with him. I am afraid of that the ulcer touched his precum. But basically I did not feel uncomfortable in my oral cavity that day. This guy has a detectable viral load (quite high). I am really worried about the exposure I had.

[JamesD1991]

Studies have been performed and documented to show the no-risk scenario oral sex is

[Harrison1989]

Thank you mate.

I read some articles online, they said giving oral sex with ejaculation is something could pass HIV although it is rare. So you think I am not in a risk because there was no ejaculation or oral sex is simply not a way for transmission? Because I think I did have some his pre-ejaculation fluids in my mouth.

[JamesD1991]

You need not be concerned over anything you mention.