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a few weeks ago I had an encounter where there was very little contact, but it came after a guy had been masterbating, then put his finger inside my anus, not very deep as it's not something I liked. I've read other posts suggesting even if there was pre-cum on the finger that it would be a no-risk situation, but I just can't find the information to help me understand why.
When I look up how long HIV survives outside the body, I don't find supportive information suggesting it was a no risk situation. Fear is a powerful imagination fuel, so the mind starts prodding for exceptions.
Here's my concern: this happened while I was just outside his sliding door, he was inside his house. It was a hot day, mid to upper 90's, and there wasn't much time between him touching himself and the insertion. So, I'm worried that, assuming there was pre-cum on his finger, that the warm weather and quick time span could have created a situation that mimicked the temperature inside the body for that short time.
If this proves to still be a no-risk situation, could you please explain why, with more detail than HIV can't survive outside the body?
Thank you! And thanks to everyone who responds to these threads, even though I'm still sketched out, it's been extremely reassuring to read the responses to other posts, and really respect the good will I see on here.
When I look up how long HIV survives outside the body, I don't find supportive information suggesting it was a no risk situation. Fear is a powerful imagination fuel, so the mind starts prodding for exceptions.
Here's my concern: this happened while I was just outside his sliding door, he was inside his house. It was a hot day, mid to upper 90's, and there wasn't much time between him touching himself and the insertion. So, I'm worried that, assuming there was pre-cum on his finger, that the warm weather and quick time span could have created a situation that mimicked the temperature inside the body for that short time.
If this proves to still be a no-risk situation, could you please explain why, with more detail than HIV can't survive outside the body?
Thank you! And thanks to everyone who responds to these threads, even though I'm still sketched out, it's been extremely reassuring to read the responses to other posts, and really respect the good will I see on here.
How i wish I could say im an angel. The reason I know much about this is. I put every principle to the test. Whether it be oral or protected sex. Then there came a point i got so paranoid so i got myself tested. So here im just trying to help people out. While doing my best not to do anything stupid anymore.
Thanks so much for the quick, thoughtful reply. Again, I realize I'm just being paranoid (no pun intended), but could lube incase the virus in such a way that it would be airtight?
documented transmission of HIV includes:
1. Unprotected anal / vaginal sex
2. Mother to daughter transmission
3. Sharing of iv needles
HIV in anal sex is transmitted via traumatic sex in homosexuals.Meaning there is a tendency for both partners to bleed. Because the anus has no natural form of lubrication. Mutual masterbation is a no risk event. And once HIV is exposed to air it dies quickly. That is why very intimate contact is required before transmission is to be effective.
1. Unprotected anal / vaginal sex
2. Mother to daughter transmission
3. Sharing of iv needles
HIV in anal sex is transmitted via traumatic sex in homosexuals.Meaning there is a tendency for both partners to bleed. Because the anus has no natural form of lubrication. Mutual masterbation is a no risk event. And once HIV is exposed to air it dies quickly. That is why very intimate contact is required before transmission is to be effective.
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