Is there a need to get scared?

[mchris9]

Before three days i had bought a Brand new toy i.e Anal beads from bondara.co.uk and after it arrived it was in the box for minimum 48 hours. After that i poured hot water on it and even washed it little by hand wash gel. I was not sure if i washed it thoroughly. But after then i used it on myself after i put some ky jelly on myself. Since i was out of sttock of condoms i used a plastic bad to cover my fingers and put it in my ***. I have a baby of 1 year and please advice me is there a chance i might get HIV or any sexual related disease from it? Should i stop my sex life with my wife? Should i wait for three months and get a test before i resume my sexlife? Or is it not necessary?

I know you will be getting alot of question like this but please please answer this for me. Am i at any risk of getting any disease?

[mchris9]

yup. thankyu...

[at_ss]

When you say 'brand new', it means something thats not used.
you have also been told told that if the beads were used, still it wouldnt pose a risk.
Now move on. You are good.

[mchris9]

thanks.. But brand new toys are never used right? and i even washed the toy a bit before using it.

so do i need to get tested?

[nursegirl6572]

You couldn't get HIV in this scenario.  Even IF someone has used the toy, and returned it, the virus would have been inactive LONG before you ever got it.

You don't need any testing.

[mchris9]

Thanks aton.  I do not need to get tested or anything right?

[at_ss]

This forum is hiv specifc. You do not have hiv concern.

[mchris9]

I agree but there is no chance of any thing on  the brand new anal beads right? What if someone had used them and returned them afterwards.
I dont want to be a HIV provider to my wife and kid.

Thanks

[at_ss]

You do not have a hiv concern. You are good. Nothing to worry about. Hiv is transmitted by unprotected anal/vaginal penetrative intercourse.

[mchris9]

I am not sure if those beads had anything on them when i got them from the store. They were brand new but i am just getting scared.  Should i not be and is it okay to continue my sex life with my wife?

[at_ss]

What makex you think that the anal beads will give you hiv or any other disease? There is no risk wnatsoever.