Re-posting this to hopefully an appropriate community topic.. but basically I went twice to a massage parlour and had both times a thai body to body massage this week.
The first time (9th of this month) there was not much rubbing between genitals and I only sucked on her nipple and nibbled her ear but no penetration or oral was involved.
I then went again (IK STUPID OF ME, 14th of this month) and this time there was no sucking or anything. Just body rubbing, I believe genitals rubbing was slightly more prolonged but hard to tell due to the oil. I did not release inside either since it ended up going towards their chest or stomach. As for vaginal fluids.. Im not sure, hard to tell due to oil.
After that last one my post NUT clarity kicked in and now Im anxious that I may have made a big mistake. There were no penetrative sex as far as I was concerned but then again I fear that the genital rubbing or nipple sucking from the first one may have transferred HIV to me, what is the likelyhood of that?!
They both have said that they're ok and to not worry. Even the receptionist reassured me that they were all clean and healthy and that I should calm down since no sex was involved. Am I in trouble??? They're all adamant about it but I can't help it, who knows how many guys they may do this service to?!
I don't mind having a STD just as long as it isn't HIV.. I deffo learnt my lesson..
Edit: She covered herself in oil. Am not sure if that actually contributes to anything too so.