Thanks for your feedback! Could you tell me why? Also, I forgot to mention I was masturbating with my partner before hand and then my partner spunked. I cant remember how long it was when he fingered me after he spunked.
Does your boyfriend have HIV?
Sorry I didn't make my story clear, this is the updated version:
I'm a gay male who was fingered (I'm not sure if it was rectum or anus). Its a bit hard to remember what happened so I apologise. I was masturbating with my partner when he spunked on his hand. I was then fingered with the hand my boyfriend had spunked on and as he went to finger me, his cum was going in my anus/rectum. I don't know if it was cum or sweat, but if it was cum what are the risks of getting HIV or an STD? I am 14 years old and I totally realise my mistake and I have promised never to have done something as silly as this again, please help so I can put my mind at rest or make any move needed. I do not know how long it was after he spunked when he fingered me and I also cant remember if it was his hand or fingers he used to finger me with but this wouldn't matter either way right? Also, I am very uneducated about sex education and things so can someone tell me if semen, sperm and cum are all the same? Thanks so much for any answers.
I think your story was clear...does your boyfirend have HIV?
As far as I know, no. He told me I'm the only boy he has had a relationship with and he one time sucked my penis and I thought you could get HIV/STD through this but he said I didnt cum in his mouth. By the way I changed the story in the previous comment, did you read it?
Nothing to read as it is no risk as you did not have penitrative sex.
You can get a STD from oral sex even if you don't ejaculate.
So I am at no risk of HIV? And I didn't suck, I was being sucked.. Does this put me at any risk of an STD?
No HIV risk-post in the HIV forum.
I have been sucked by him more than once but I dont know how many times, does this put me at risk of anything?
HIV is not transmitted by oral sex.
Thank you so much! I don't know how many times he has sucked my penis (it's been more than once) am I at risk of an STD/STI?
I have realised my mistakes and I have promised to do nothing serious until I have finished school!
I appreciate the answers so much.
Sorry, I mean to write...post in the STD forum
Okay I shall do that now, thank you so much for your help, so just to recap
I haven't got anything from the question before oral sex?
Also, are the rectum and the anus the same thing?