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Last Question regarding my HIV concerns
Hi everyone,
3 yrs back, I started posting on this website (the id has been suspended due to rule breakage of this web-site), the risk was said "NO RISK" or "ZERO RISK" or "NON-EXISTANT" by all of professional here: Teak, Joggan, GracefromHHP, RainLover, and Liz. I was paranoid and nearly had 2-3 yrs 's fear of HIV. Sometimes anxiety goes but it comes again.
Finally, I thought of tested, and went for testing. The doctor asked when I had sex---and I said I never had any (intercourse, or oral)---she was surprised and replied why you are here?---I was really embarrassed. But she tested me and after week got results normal..I got happy and went with life.
Not very long after this test, I visited a massage parlour for lap-dance: the story is in my previous threads (http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Help-me-get-off-my-anxiety-or-fear/show/1812459#post_8437648)....many people said MOVE ON....But agan I am having hard time in moving.....
Give this story, I dont want to embarassed again...and I AM THINKING TO MOVE ON...!
My question is why 50% of the people in this web-site are posting about NO RISK scenarios?
thanks for your time
3 yrs back, I started posting on this website (the id has been suspended due to rule breakage of this web-site), the risk was said "NO RISK" or "ZERO RISK" or "NON-EXISTANT" by all of professional here: Teak, Joggan, GracefromHHP, RainLover, and Liz. I was paranoid and nearly had 2-3 yrs 's fear of HIV. Sometimes anxiety goes but it comes again.
Finally, I thought of tested, and went for testing. The doctor asked when I had sex---and I said I never had any (intercourse, or oral)---she was surprised and replied why you are here?---I was really embarrassed. But she tested me and after week got results normal..I got happy and went with life.
Not very long after this test, I visited a massage parlour for lap-dance: the story is in my previous threads (http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Help-me-get-off-my-anxiety-or-fear/show/1812459#post_8437648)....many people said MOVE ON....But agan I am having hard time in moving.....
Give this story, I dont want to embarassed again...and I AM THINKING TO MOVE ON...!
My question is why 50% of the people in this web-site are posting about NO RISK scenarios?
thanks for your time
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http://www.medhelp.org/user_posts/list/1173698?page=1&personal_page_id=990857
P.S.
Sorry for cross posting n keep posting!
Thanks for clearing some things up.
I have no doubt that you will soon be back to your old self and I wish you great happiness and peace.
Nemaste
Greenlydia
I have no doubt that you will soon be back to your old self and I wish you great happiness and peace.
Nemaste
Greenlydia
"Sexual Repression in the Information Age!"
I really quite like this term. And You knw 3 yrs back, you suggested me the same,,... because, I was feeling religious guilt and you told me to go to church etc for getting calmness. You also suggested me to get tested for peace of mind.
But yeah, I agree my encounter was attached to religious guilt not with science and this time again it is connected to guilt as I promised to never repeat that again.
P.S.
I knw this is nt the theme of this forum.
Thanks for your kind time.
I really quite like this term. And You knw 3 yrs back, you suggested me the same,,... because, I was feeling religious guilt and you told me to go to church etc for getting calmness. You also suggested me to get tested for peace of mind.
But yeah, I agree my encounter was attached to religious guilt not with science and this time again it is connected to guilt as I promised to never repeat that again.
P.S.
I knw this is nt the theme of this forum.
Thanks for your kind time.
I agree that a large percentage of posts on this forum are guilt-driven. And misinformation is just a nose behind.
I LOVED your Sexual Repression in the Information Age! We could simply refer to it as "SRIA." Perhaps we should nominate it for inclusion in the DSM-IV-TR! (Also referred to as "The Big Book of Unhappiness)
WOOT
I LOVED your Sexual Repression in the Information Age! We could simply refer to it as "SRIA." Perhaps we should nominate it for inclusion in the DSM-IV-TR! (Also referred to as "The Big Book of Unhappiness)
WOOT
I dont knw why I posted and what I am asking...
Coming to ur questions:
"You stated that you did not get any milk. Were you expecting to get milk? Were you..........never mind. There was no milk. "
I was not expecting. After reading this forum, I came to know that if a girl is lactating then chances are there, there will be some milk (though this is not a risk for adults). To add information, I said I did not got any milk (this was also to stress that, I sucked very gently n not very hard)
Why did you get tested if you were a virgin? Curious.
It wuld have been cleared, if my previous id was not suspended. I had hard time in moving out. The whole idea was very simple---I did not have sex, in-fact nothing----but I did not move. The anxiety support forum and the professional forum suggested me to get tested and get peace of mind....so thats why I went.
Three yr back I was extremely happy guy, then I got changed so much, everyone including my parents and sisters noted and asked man times..n I just keep saying I m busy with studies...!
Hope I will be back to my life again!
Thank you
Coming to ur questions:
"You stated that you did not get any milk. Were you expecting to get milk? Were you..........never mind. There was no milk. "
I was not expecting. After reading this forum, I came to know that if a girl is lactating then chances are there, there will be some milk (though this is not a risk for adults). To add information, I said I did not got any milk (this was also to stress that, I sucked very gently n not very hard)
Why did you get tested if you were a virgin? Curious.
It wuld have been cleared, if my previous id was not suspended. I had hard time in moving out. The whole idea was very simple---I did not have sex, in-fact nothing----but I did not move. The anxiety support forum and the professional forum suggested me to get tested and get peace of mind....so thats why I went.
Three yr back I was extremely happy guy, then I got changed so much, everyone including my parents and sisters noted and asked man times..n I just keep saying I m busy with studies...!
Hope I will be back to my life again!
Thank you
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I read your original post. While you remained fully clothed, a nude woman gave you a lap dance. You touched her vagina, but, only the outside and you also gently sucked her nipple(s). You stated that you did not get any milk. Were you expecting to get milk? Were you..........never mind. There was no milk.
Why did you get tested if you were a virgin? Curious.
OK, so given the story of the lap dance, of you not wanting to embarrass yourself again and the fact you're thinking about moving on, I'm going to take a wild stab at answering your question about why 50% (?) of the people on this forum post about NO RISK scenarios. Probably because they also don't know what the correct answer is.
I think you can go home with a big smile on your face and your family will not see any stress there at all because you have nothing to be stressed about.
I wish you so much luck
Nemaste
Greenlydia