I am a 40 year old married male with 2 kids. I test hiv negative at 8 weeks (54) days. My exposure was receiving unprotected oral sex from a woman. I was feeling fine mentally and physically but at 7 weeks I developed a sore throat that went away in one day and now have a cold. Needless to say I am extemely depressed and anxious about this situation. I am crying everyday and am so scared. I don't know what to do. I cannot function. There are so many gray areas with hiv, 6 weeks window period,8 weeks, 12 weeks, unprotected oral no risk, low risk, some risk. I am so sad. I just want to be finished with this, it is consuming all my energy. I just want my life back.