So, you are going to have to memorize this and apply it each situation going forward. We already answered a similar question for you back in September. Here are the risks for HIV and please memorize them so you don't have to keep asking or wondering. The risks for HIV transmission are having unprotected vaginal sex, unprotected anal sex or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. You can not, EVER, touch something and get HIV. Even with blood on it or even with your penis. Fingers touching penis, no risk. . Hand jobs are NEVER a risk. Memorize that. If you don't engage in one of the three risks, you had NO risk.