I had sex this morning with someone I met out. I asked for his STD status and he said he was absolutely clean. I did not want to do any anal without a condom but I was not as careful as I should have been and it happened anyway for probably less than a minute. He pulled out and ejaculated outside of me.
We ate breakfast together, I met his friends, and he gave me his number, so I don't feel sketchy about him or feel he was lying to me, but I know that people lie or can be unaware. I have sex very rarely and am insistent on condoms and I just had a lapse in judgement this time. I am from the USA but I just moved to Germany and am insured here, but I am unsure about the health insurance process here and if I would have to pay for PEP should I want to get it (no way I could pay for it myself). I don't know if I'm freaking myself out because if he is indeed negative I am essentially worrying about nothing. As I write this, it has been 10 hours since we had sex. And of course pandering on the internet is not helping me either. Would appreciate an informed opinion, thanks in advance!