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Oral sex and Vergina sex with condom

In the past 3 years, I did this many times with prositudes. Oral sex and then vergina sex with condom(I am male). Now I am worry and nervous that I may get hiv. Can some one tell me about my situation?
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (mouth, hand, maybe blood, maybe cuts, lips etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.

You can't get hiv when you use a condom. It doesn't matter how many times you do a no risk event, you still have no risk, and the prostitutes know this.
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Visit some websites say it may have low risk. Wonder if there’s some case that people got from this situation?
We rely on the opinion of expert doctors, so we don't pay attention to what posters claim they read and possibly misinterpreted somewhere on the internet, or we'll be arguing all day.
Since you didn't answer the QUESTION - the answer is > No, there wasn't a penis in my anus during the oral and I wasn't injected so had no risk and should move on, instead of searching the internet googling for death.
Got it my friend. Thanks for your help. Just very anxious while waiting for my body check result.
What's a " body check result. "? This is an hiv prevention forum, and you had a series of non-events. Case closed.
Ye.  But the doctor asked me if I have sex and if I wear condom while doing. That makes me feel nervous
Maybe see a therapist who can help you deal with hiv fixation. There is nothing anyone here can do to help you with your problem.
Sorry for my bad English understanding, does it mean I worry too much?
It means you are worrying about things that aren't even REAL.
Getting HIV from oral sex and protected vaginal sex is not REAL. It is in your imagination.
Got it doctors. Thanks for all ur time! Appreciate that!
Just got test result shows negative! Thanks you all for answering my concern!
It is not necessary to update your placebo test result here - a placebo test proves nothing since people don't always get hiv when they actually have a risk - which you didn't.
You might as well have tested to see if she made you pregnant.
Hopefully you either stop imagining you have the disease you are fixated on, or seek therapy.
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