Please help me!!! Worried a lot

[serverforus]

I had a sex with a thailad girl 10 days back , during my sexual intercource i used condoms there was blood came out of her - i undersood its mensural blood - the condom didnt break.
And before i had sex i took bath with her and she gave blow job for 10 seconds and i just licked her bottom for 5 seconds.. after that she gave me a blow job with condoms.

can you please help me do i have risk of HIV ?

do i need to take test ?

i dont have any symptoms as of now, due to anxitey feel like throat pain other wise nothing ..

i have sleepless nights , can you please answer me Dr.. very scared in life going to get marry .. need to have happy life .. will not this mistake again in my life..

[nursegirl6572]

YOU NEVER HAD AN "EXPOSURE".

Again, read the replies you have received.  You never had a risk for HIV.  Really....time for you to move on.  If you can't accept that you didn't have a risk...get professional help.

[serverforus]

i am really sorry .. its been 15 days today from day i had a exposure , for the past 5 days i have cold, throat pain ( getting throat irritaion and while flum is coming out when ever i caugh) and feeling fatigu.. really worried not able to concentrate on anything .. really worried ..

can you please help me replying do i have any risk .. do i need to take test ..

i know you have already replied .. but still because of symptoms i am worried

[LIZZIE LOU]

re-read what you've been told ! ! !

there is no reason for you to come back every time you have the squirts or your body hurts.

[serverforus]

today i had loose stool and little body ache, now that its two weeks after exposure , i am worried again .

please advise is there any problem and also let me know do i need to take test ..

please reply

[serverforus]

Yes i know ...i want to double check and hear from you good words , so that i will be mentaly free.. please reply .. no more post from myside

thanks in advance

[Teak]

Reread the replies you were given our answers are not gong to change.

[serverforus]

Teak & Lizzi,

in the past one year i had sex with condoms with around 4 to 5 times with different girls ,now i am remembering that in the past one year i got two times fever and sore throat for almost continued one week every time...
Now i am worried do i have any problem? do i need to take any test ?

because that time i didnt have any awarness and left its a normal cold and fever.. i am worried now ..please help me answering ..

do i have any risk having those old symptoms , whether if i affected whether the symptoms only once and go off .. i didnt have any dieria or lymp nodes nothing during those time...

please advise do i have risk .. do i need to take test ...

based on your advice i am going to continue my life .. i am going to marry in couple of months ..
please advice.

[Teak]

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child

[serverforus]

during when we started taking shower , she was cleaning her lower part and she touched the tip of my little one for a 5 seconds , by any chance will it get infected and more over for more that 15 mins we were taking shower and there it was more a oral , i didnt wear condoms at that time , only when actual sexual intercourse i wore condoms..

can you please clarify this .. sorry to bother you again and again .. hope you understand how much people who has this kind of anexity suffer..

if no please explain in detail , i promise i will not ask any more questions..

thanks in advance for your help and reply..

[serverforus]

thanks a ton teak

[Teak]

No. HIV is not transmitted by oral sex.

[serverforus]

by any chance Mensural Blood cary HIV , if the person is positive , since i licked for few seconds .. does it cause risk .. sorry to ask you again..

my last question please answer

[Teak]

No.

[serverforus]

do i need to any test , please advise

[Teak]

NO RISK.

[serverforus]

when i incerted my fingers , i touched the vaginal fluids and i washed immediately and  am sure there was no cut in my fingers ....

if there is a cut , whether is it required blood bleeding or ??/

[LIZZIE LOU]

you stated that in your original post.

you had no risk

[serverforus]

Thanks Lizzi for your immediate reply..

i am very much scared because the blood has come out , but it was on the condom only ..

and i didnt know she is on period and when i suckked her i didnt feel anything ... worried since she was in period any blood or vaginal fluid got inside my mouth ..

please help answer this alone.. thanks a ton ..

[LIZZIE LOU]

protected sex = safe sex

nothing that you've described put you at risk for contracting hiv