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Please help me am I infected?
I had unprotected oral sex with a girl which includes slight licking of the clitoris & getting a blow job. Also there was a little bit of touching of the head of my penis to her anus. There was a little bit of kissing as well. Please advise if i am at a high risk for HIV. I desperately need your help. I am married & am really scared of transfering anything to my wife. Also I had a bit of a sore throat on this day.
Teak, in view of your above response, can I take it that you'll now be dropping in on Dr Hook and HHH in the Experts forum to give those esteemed professionals both barrels for having the temerity to suggest to worried-wells in countless threads there that it might be a good move to take a test anyway, simply for peace of mind?
And perhaps when you've done that, you might consider a visit to the appropriate forum that addresses insecurity issues? Because it seems to me that you do have some serious issues in that department.
And perhaps when you've done that, you might consider a visit to the appropriate forum that addresses insecurity issues? Because it seems to me that you do have some serious issues in that department.
What IS your problem my friend? Read my posts again - I say (paraphrased) "test if it will give you reassurance". I don't say test or don't test.
Go over to the Experts forum and HHH and Dr Hook say pretty much the same thing.
I don't claim to have their professional expertise (I'm just an interested layman, nothing more), but if you think that's bad advice to give, maybe you ought to take it up with them?
Go over to the Experts forum and HHH and Dr Hook say pretty much the same thing.
I don't claim to have their professional expertise (I'm just an interested layman, nothing more), but if you think that's bad advice to give, maybe you ought to take it up with them?
So far your advice has been mostly incorrect. ie. Telling people to test when they didn't have an exposure.
I'm new here Teak, so my apologies if I've violated any unwritten rule that states that you have to have the last word in any thread that you respond to.
Like you, I'm just here to try and offer advice to the "worried well" having been in that particular boat myself and knowing how stressful it can be.
So don't worry - I'm not out to queer your virtual pitch or anything like that. We're on the same side here, I think.
Like you, I'm just here to try and offer advice to the "worried well" having been in that particular boat myself and knowing how stressful it can be.
So don't worry - I'm not out to queer your virtual pitch or anything like that. We're on the same side here, I think.
You really don't have to worry about this exposure at all.
Repeating the question three times and dreaming up "what if" scenarios won't change the advice you are being given.
This was zero risk. You can move on and forget about it.
Repeating the question three times and dreaming up "what if" scenarios won't change the advice you are being given.
This was zero risk. You can move on and forget about it.
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Thanks Teak so are you saying this was zero risk even if there was a chance this person could have been infected?
I had unprotected oral sex with a girl which includes slight licking of the clitoris & getting a blow job. Also there was a little bit of touching of the head of my penis to her anus. There was a little bit of kissing as well. Please advise if i am at a high risk for HIV. I desperately need your help. I am married & am really scared of transfering anything to my wife. Also I had a bit of a sore throat on this day. and what if I was fingering her a little and there was a trace of blood on my finger...please tell me i am really worried.....
I had unprotected oral sex with a girl which includes slight licking of the clitoris & getting a blow job. Also there was a little bit of touching of the head of my penis to her anus. There was a little bit of kissing as well. Please advise if i am at a high risk for HIV. I desperately need your help. I am married & am really scared of transfering anything to my wife. Also I had a bit of a sore throat on this day. and what if I was fingering her a little and there was a trace of blood on my finger...please tell me i am really worried.....
Thanks for that buddy......and what if I was fingering her a little and there was a trace of blood on my finger...please tell me i am really worried.....
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