You never had a risk,what did you expect the results to be.
I tested negative with duo test. tehy say in France it is conclusive if taken 6 weekd after possible risk. I took it at week 7.
Thanks all for the support and right advises!
My God! My God! Thank you all so much. The last time I tested was in June 2011, then in November 2011. The only one sexual contact I had since November was the one I described here. And if you are sure it was no risk, and my sympthoms are non-indicative, I will not go for another test.
I appreciate your help very much.
Dear Teak,
I respect your opinion. I am confused now that RestingMyBonez does suggest the test... Maybe he also thinks that the guy could have poked me with an infected needle...
You still believe I do not need the test?
Who is OP?
Dear All,
I would never come back to this thread, but the symptoms I have now put me in worry again.
It is the 6th week from the encounter I mentioned in this thread. Since four days I have a bit of sore throat. No fever. No running nose, but some uncomfortable nasal discharge I feel in my nose. These are quite unusual symptoms; normally if I catch cold I have much more pain in my throat and running nose after.
Today I had diarrhea one time. Earlier last week I also had diarrhea once. The frequency is also quite unusual for me. And I normally have none when I catch cold.
Do you think that I need to test for HIV?
I beg you not to delete this question but instead to give it a serious consideration. My wife thinks that she is pregnant !!! now (all tests show that but we are waiting for the ultrasound test) and the pregnancy happened AFTER the incident. I trusted you and other people on this site who told me that I had nothing to worry and could sleep with my wife.
many thanks
I promise to make the last post here. First, I appreciate your help.
Many times all of you said that I was not infected - not because of mutual masturbation nor because of "potential infected needle" . I have a simple question to all of you: would you bet your 10000$ (or whatever sum you like) that I was not?
No risk of HIV.
Therapy for psychological support
Just try to forget about all and to move on
You need to stay away from such perverts and as far as your risk,you have already been assessed many times as having none.Let this go and move on with your life.Get some therapy aswell.This forum has nothing left to offer you but all the best for the future.
again, the man I met behaved very strangely. He insisted to meet me knowing that he would not have an erection (just ejaculated). He simply "enjoys watching naked men".. Such a freak! Lied to me about his work place. Sent me not a photo of himself. And I was stupid enough to meet him. He masturbated me in his (or not his?) car.
What can you expect from such guy? Unusual behavior. That was a risk. How much - that's the question.. Could infect me in a way I would not noticed..
And your risk has already been assessed.
well, i thought you are suppouse to help estimating risks.
keep it on the hiv anxiety community forum
nursegirl6572 , you seriously think I need it?
Correction:
....seek professional help for your irrational FEARS.
The best advice we could give you've already been given....seek professional help for your irrational help. People aren't just running around with needles poking others...and if they were, it would not go unnoticed.
Tine to move on, there is nothing left we can help you with, you don't have an HIV concern.
I'm not saying that there isn't stupid,mad people like that around but that never happened to you and you know it because you would feel it.
i would love to..
so you ignor the fact that there might be crazy people wanted to infect other with a needle?
You wouldn't have had a risk of contracting any STD's from this situation.It's a zero risk encounter for anything.Have a great new year and let this go.Put it all behind you.
On contrary, I accept and do not worry about the zero risk masturbation event. My worries are about a possibility to be infected in other way.