I assume that he means that your girlfriends status is unknown. She never got tested.
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Happy Holidays,
Emily
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You dont need a test if you had oral sex you are safe from HIV.
Yes. I'm just repeating what Teak and the others saying. If you have sex with CSWs, why can't there be the possibility your GF having sex with other people too? So, unless you hav e a test result of your GF with negative HIV, we can't assume 100% she is negative.
Yes,I am sure that she is safe.Then u mean I have no risk of hiv,I cant get hiv and she doesnt have hiv too.So we can make love without condoms.Is it you meanning?
Yes, that is correct. Both you and your GF should have a full STD work-up done together, once yearly. They usually include HIV testing, which doesn't hurt to have, especially if you are planning on engaging in unprotected sex with each other...that way each of you can sh9ow the other that your baseline status is negative.
Again, though, I cannot stress enough that while you are visiting CSW's, you should continue to use condoms with your GF.
You didn't have a risk for HIV, however, you are visiting sex workers and doing things that could easily put you at risk for other STD's...which you would then give to your GF if you didn't use protection.
Until you stop visiting sex workers, you must use a condom with your GF or you are placing her at risk for non-HIV STD's.
Everyone who is sexually active should have a yearly STD screening and NO ONE should engage in unprotected sex until they are committed to one another with NO other partners and until they have both been tested for STD's.
You are not monogamous, therefore you must continue to use condoms.
From what you wrote it seems you didnt have risk.
But use protection
Thank you for your words.U say many many words to me,I think U mean that I have no risk for hiv and I can make love with her without condoms.Is it your meanning?
For goodness sake this thread just keeps going and going!!!
you are not at risk from HIV from the activities you have described.
What I am guessing Teak is meaning is that if you have sexually active outside of your relationship then you shoudl be having a full, annual screen for all STD's. Thi sis a recommenddation I would make for everybody who is sexually active.
Your girlfriend should also have an annual test. Until you guys are in a committed monogamous relationship you should both test. You are clearly not in a monogamous relationship as you frequent CSW's frequently.
From the acitivities you have brought to the forum you do not have any risk associated with the tranmission of HIV. Protected sex is just that and oral sex is not risk. The saliva incident is irrelevant as saliva inhibits HIV.
This thread seems to have got a bit confusing so I will make it very clear.
No risk but regular STD check ups are recommended... not just for you but everybody who is sexually active.
Now please move on.
U mean i can make love with my girl without condoms.Am i right?
you did not have a risk for hiv from the exposures you described in your post.
Then do you think do i have the risk for hiv because of my actions?
Everyone that is sexually active should have a full sexual health check up annually.
Why?if I am safe,there is no need to test hiv.But you let me to test,it means I am at risk of hiv otherwise why u told me to do the hiv-test?U said " I did not say that at all".what is your meaning?I really understand.zamzam4's words and yours are different,which I can believe?
I was happy when I saw the zamzam4's suggestion.but what you said made me confused.What can i do?I have the psychological block for hospital......
I think I should test STDs.But for hiv you didnt say I am at risk of it. Why I test?Isnt it contradictory?
Could you help me?I am confused.One said I am ok,no need to test.The other one told me you went to test though I dont say you are at risk of hiv.Who Can I Comply with?
I think I should test STDs.But for hiv you didnt say I am at risk of it. Why I test?Isnt it contradictory?
I did not say that at all, but before you suspend the use of condoms you should test not only for HIV but other STDs.
You suggest me to go to test.You think I am not safe.I still have the risk for hiv because of my actions.Right?
I would hope your g/f would not have unprotected sex with you until she see your test result.
I said she had a test before and I am sure that her result is ok and she lived with me these days.So she didnt make love with others.Now I am worried myself.I dont know my actions is dangerous or not.ZamZam4 told me I am ok .But I want to get more suggestion.So I ask u and LIZZLE.So plz tell me AM I at risk of hiv?Do I need to test for hiv?Can I make love with my girl without condom?Thank you.
Both of you test so make sure neither one of you have been exposed before you stop using condoms for vaginal and anal sex.