Nothing you've posted is a risk for HIV. The HIV expert doctors who used to post here have repeatedly stated that the two things you've posted will not result in HIV. Furthermore they continue to state that if an adult always uses condoms for penetrative anal or vaginal sex and if they do not share IV drug needles with infected users then they will have no reason to fear HIV from any other activities.
As you've been told already, this is a moderated forum where any advice provided by someone which is not in line with HIV expert guidance is promptly deleted by the moderators.
Hello. These are not risks for HIV. The way that adults get HIV is from unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles. Saliva and air inactivate the virus. Oral and breast sucking are not risks for HIV so you need not worry and don't have to test. You should use a barrier method for oral sex though for the risk of std's but not hiv. HIV is not a risk.