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Protected massage yet worried

Went to a massage parlour. Wore two condoms. Made the girl wash her hands and then wear the latex gloves. She just touched my penis for 30 sec over the condoms. What i am worried about is tat i rubbed my penis on her a** with her clothes on but rubber it also on her bare chest and n***les. What are odds of being safe? I have done this for the first time. Please help. Very worried. Thanks in advance. Waiting in anticipation
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Teak, can you put some light on this? Please.
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186166 tn?1385259382
it doesnt matter if she is positive or not.  you did not have unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse...or share iv drug needles with her.
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Mam , please read....I said she tested Positive. Am not doing no drama.
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186166 tn?1385259382
oh stop the drama.  there's not a snowball's chance in hell that you were infected from what you described above.
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Here's a bad news I have to share... The woman I went to I took her for a test by paying her money. she's tested +.

Its 48 hours and am sitting with excruciating pain in my groin, sore throat and fever. Guys am very worried. I have decided to get on PEP first thing tomorrow morning. I doubt its efficacy though after about 60 hours. please pray for me people. I am dying!

My chances of being safe just turned from slim to thin...God save me now...I will come back after 3 months of test. please keep me in your prayers
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186166 tn?1385259382
ZERO CHANCE ! ! ! ! !

MOVE ON THIS THREAD IS DONE.
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Pls don't ban. Needed a conclusive answer from you guys. Pls tell me what should I do? Is there ZERO chances for infection? Pls tell me. Gods save me.. Trust me i will also be one like you to help others on this forum. Pls help me to do that. I request conclusive answers. Pls
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* Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to action by MedHelp. Conclusive negative results or a no-risk situation will be based up the criteria MedHelp’s doctors. Action will be taken as follows:
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are both you guys 100% sure of that i stand no risk whatsoever? abosuGODlutely? please tell me. Teak can you second that too?
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186166 tn?1385259382
CALM DOWN.

you dont need PEP...you were not at risk ! ! ! !

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

now re-read what i just wrote.  do you fit into any of those categories?  

you have been advised that you DO NOT have a hiv concern.  move on.
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please listen to lizzie shes right.try a hobbie keep your mind on something else.
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Mam a handjob didn't take place. I only rubbed my penis(protected) on a** with her clothes on. Also rubbed it on her bare chest. No penetration or oral sex. I rubbed on her lower body with her jeans on. How safe am I? Am sure your assessment will change as there was no handjob. Please indicate. Thanks
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Mam, sorry if am quantifying it but am I 99.99% safe regardless to her status? Its been close to 2 hours. Should I get on PEP asap? Please mam. Help for the last time. God bless. I have only 6 hours left to act. Please Mam
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186166 tn?1385259382
it would NOT have mattered if you didnt have a condom on.  what you are describing is a handjob...that is in no way a risk.  rubbing yourself on her was NOT a risk either.

condom or no condom...you did not have a risk.  period ! ! !

you do not need testing.
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255761 tn?1204166672
No risk here!!!! You wore a condom annd condoms work .. Move on and next time use only one condom!!
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Mam, do you think moving on with my wife will be ok? I've learnt my lesson. Or do I need to test b4? Please tell me if I need a TEST or can I can rule out TESTING? Please last Q
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480448 tn?1426948538
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO risk at all!!!!!

RE-read what I said and I'll even make it more clear....


And, you may want to read up on proper condom use....only EVER wear one condom at a time IN THE FUTURE..otherwise you are increasing your chances of having a condom break!


ONE condom at a time.

NO risk...move on, don't give it another thought.
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So are you telling me that I have increased the chances of being infected. Do I need do a HIV test? Can I move on with my wife? I have cheated her...so do i need to test b4 having any physical relation with her. Please tell me Mam. God bless.
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480448 tn?1426948538
My Lord...of COURSE no risk.

And, you may want to read up on proper condom use....only EVER wear one condom at a time..otherwise you are increasing your chances of having a condom break!
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