Rape

[renee6616]

When my husband was out of town, he decided to go into a porn shop. He went into a back room to masterbute (never has he done this before). While he was in there, a man entered the room. My husband stated that he was penetrated only a few times. He said it was brief and he forced the man off of him.  He said he was sore, as he has never engaged in this type of behavior.  He believes there was no blood, and the penetration only happened 3 or 4 times.  Doesn't believe that the man entered all the way in. My husband contracted chlamydia, for which he has been treated, as well as myself. (i wasn't diagnosed, just treated). I am beyond stressed about the possiblity of HIV. Can you please talk to me about the odds of contracting HIV?

[LIZZIE LOU]

only penetrated a few times?
sore?
only penetrated 3-4 times?
NOT PENETRATED ALL THE WAY?

penetration is penetration ! ! !  if your husband was SORE...pretty sure he was PENETRATED.

that being the case...he needs to test.  3 months post exposure will give him a conclusive result.

do NOT have unprotected sex with him until he has a conclusive result.

[renee6616]

What do you think the risk factor is?

[Teak]

1. He has to test 3 months post exposure for a conclusive result
2. You need to be using condoms correctly and consistently until he receives his test result.

[renee6616]

Regardless, if I am naive or not. It has happened and I am scared. I appreciate your support.

[Teak]

I would rather think you made it up than to believe you were being that naive.

[renee6616]

Why would I make something like that up?

[LIZZIE LOU]

HHHUUUMMMMMMM

[Teak]

Do you believe that story? I don't..