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What's my risk for HIV?
Hey, two weeks ago a girl I met online performed unprotected oral on me. I ejaculated in her mouth and I lasted no more than 5 - 10 minutes. Before that took place she was on top of me and both our clothes were off, I know this sounds stupid but I can't recall penetrating her. She assures me I did not, and it never felt like I did. I freaked out and she assured me she's clean. She showed me her std results from February, all negative. She even reassured me by taking a blood finger prick HIV test the day after, also negative. She said she was willing to do anything to prove she was clean and for me to stop freaking out. I plan on taking a full test at 32 days. Am I worrying over nothing here? She's 26, African American. The worst is this occurred during me and my girlfriends breakup and now my ex wants me back.
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Your risk for HIV is zero. Oral sex is not a risk for HIV. If you don't remember penetrating her and she says you didn't, then it is HIGHLY doubtful that you did. What incentive would she have to lie about that? She obviously did everything else she could to reassure you that you didn't get HIV or an STD from her.
You should forget about this event and move forward with your life.
You should forget about this event and move forward with your life.
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