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Scared to death/loosing my mind
Hi, 2,5 months ago I had unprotected oral and fingering with Thai sex worker in Middle East area and protected vaginal sex after.
After 2 days I had sore throat, 37.5 temperature and kindeys pain plus small diarhea.
I went to doctor and I had some UTI, with small amount of red blood cells and no bacteria. During the whole month I had a kidney pain, and sore throat (in my life, I often have a sore throat and sinuses problem). Blood in my urin incresaed in second urin test, but after one month and using antibiotics it all finished, and results are perfect.Just to notice that before this I was in 5 monts diet and lost almost 18 kg.
After finishing with antibiotics (one month) I got geographic tongue or candida, and 10 days after one small swollen lymph node on my neck. I become very paranoid, and then I begin to go to toalet 3 times a day, but no diarea, only not so "hard" stool....Also, my sinuses are leaking for last 4 months, so I can't say that I have a bigger problem with that. I become very depressed after developing tongue and begin to feel weakness in my legs and hands.
I didn't have any fever,rush or weight lost.
After 2,5 months I begin to feel flue like symtoms, my hands and legs are shaking, my stomach make funny noises, and I have big sweating in hands and bottom (my but is wet all day), also I have small periods of fever raising in the evening from 36.5 to 37.6, and after sweating after one or half hour it goes to normal.
I gone to do HIV testing in American hospital, I went on monday, they told me that results will be ready on wednesday 6pm at my doctor on in the lab. I come in that time and they told me that my doctor is not here and that results are not in lab, and that I should come tommorow to Medical records room with my valid documents to pick up my result.
I was so scared that I did not go in morning, I become very paranoid!!!!! If I am positive they will deport me immidiately, and my wife and my son are with me for a month (I have sex with condom with my wife 4 times since she came - no oral, nothink) - I think I will die! What to say to the family, friends, why am I deported!!!????
IS it normal if your result is positive that U collect results from Medical records office or at your doctor? What to do? Am I infected? I lost almost 3 kg since I have been to do test(5 days ago), before that my weight was the same for 2 months....
Please answer!!!
After 2 days I had sore throat, 37.5 temperature and kindeys pain plus small diarhea.
I went to doctor and I had some UTI, with small amount of red blood cells and no bacteria. During the whole month I had a kidney pain, and sore throat (in my life, I often have a sore throat and sinuses problem). Blood in my urin incresaed in second urin test, but after one month and using antibiotics it all finished, and results are perfect.Just to notice that before this I was in 5 monts diet and lost almost 18 kg.
After finishing with antibiotics (one month) I got geographic tongue or candida, and 10 days after one small swollen lymph node on my neck. I become very paranoid, and then I begin to go to toalet 3 times a day, but no diarea, only not so "hard" stool....Also, my sinuses are leaking for last 4 months, so I can't say that I have a bigger problem with that. I become very depressed after developing tongue and begin to feel weakness in my legs and hands.
I didn't have any fever,rush or weight lost.
After 2,5 months I begin to feel flue like symtoms, my hands and legs are shaking, my stomach make funny noises, and I have big sweating in hands and bottom (my but is wet all day), also I have small periods of fever raising in the evening from 36.5 to 37.6, and after sweating after one or half hour it goes to normal.
I gone to do HIV testing in American hospital, I went on monday, they told me that results will be ready on wednesday 6pm at my doctor on in the lab. I come in that time and they told me that my doctor is not here and that results are not in lab, and that I should come tommorow to Medical records room with my valid documents to pick up my result.
I was so scared that I did not go in morning, I become very paranoid!!!!! If I am positive they will deport me immidiately, and my wife and my son are with me for a month (I have sex with condom with my wife 4 times since she came - no oral, nothink) - I think I will die! What to say to the family, friends, why am I deported!!!????
IS it normal if your result is positive that U collect results from Medical records office or at your doctor? What to do? Am I infected? I lost almost 3 kg since I have been to do test(5 days ago), before that my weight was the same for 2 months....
Please answer!!!
WHY would you even ask such a question? you have been told that you were never at risk.
kindly move on...
kindly move on...
You never had a risk and read the following.
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go collect your results i do believe its negative or u would have got a call to come in..just go.
Ok, Lizzie....if it is true I will be the happiest man in the world tommorow....just hope that my wife will not leave me when I tell her about this.
Is it normal in US hospitals if your result is positive that U collect results from Medical records office or directly from your doctor in privacy?
Tnx....I am so scared that I can't function anymore.....tonight I will tell to my wife about everything
Fingering and Oral sex have no risk.. relax. Your symptoms sound like there anxiety related. Get back your test results tommorrow and itll most likely say 'negative'.
tell us how it goes my friend. good luck (you wont need it!)
tell us how it goes my friend. good luck (you wont need it!)
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