Stupid In Russia

[stupidandguilty]

Well here is what happened everyone.  I was traveling in Russia with some well to do people, and they brought me to a strip club.  I ended up getting a lap dance from a girl for several songs.  After this took place, they sent me home with this girl.  We ended up having sex, though she gave me very brief oral before I put on a condom.  We ended up having protected intercourse, and before I finished, I removed the condom and masturbated to completion.  I definitely rubber her vagina with my penis and fingered her during while doing this, but I felt no vaginal secretions on the outside of her vagina, though there probably were.  Did I put myself at rick for contracting HIV with the stupid act.  I have been stressed and perplexed eve since, and am even barely sleeping since this incident.  I never penetrated her unprotected, but my concern is that my penis may have come into contact with her vaginal secretions during the "frottage" episode that took place towards the end of the act.  I have read so many different things and don't what to think.

[Vance2335]

You had no risk. Accept it.

[stupidandguilty]

Just want to add one more thing, after 42 days, i developed a bout of diarreah, but no other symptoms that I noticed.  Would symptoms start to show up s late as 5.5-6 weeks after if she was +.

[NickOne7]

If you have questions about risks come here dont search the net looking for answers. The net is FULL of untrue and misleading information that will just scare you.

[stupidandguilty]

Cool, thanks everyone.  Why is there so much debate over the frottage or rubbing thing though. Find it to be very misleading and there isn't any actual precise answer about it on so many different websites.

[stressedup]

some people say there is risk, because the condom may not have been used properly, which may increase the risk. like ie, the condom broke or slipped. BUT if a condom was used consistently and CORRECTLY, there is no risk

[stupidandguilty]

I contacted my health department in m y local city back home, and received an e-mail back saying that this was a risk?  Why would they say this?  I have done much research myself now, and have found that almost everything I read says that there is no risk?  Who is right?  I have not been able to find anything that suggests a person being infected from frottage, as long as there was no penetration.

[herm7391]

..hey bro..
=)
..don't thnk anythng, try tht..
..you didn't put yourself at risk..
NO risk!
..you used a Condom for intercourse, well done!
..the 'act' towards the end and unprotected oral carried NO risk, you do not need testing.
Smile.
=)
Stop worrying.
Always use a Condom and don't let the guilt get the better of you, learn frm this and move on.