a condom used CORRECTLY should not fail.
From above, you didn't contract from your "barebacking", as evidenced by your Nov 2008 test, which was 3+ months after your last risk. Regarding the Dec 4 encounter, you had a risk. Test at 6 weeks, then 12 weeks for conclusive. Until then only practice oral (yes, condom protected sex is safe provided the condom doesn't, but they call it a failure b/c it is unexpected)
Dude, people don't need anymore paranoia in their lives - especially not concerning things as serious as HIV infection - stop promoting peoples worries and get on with your life.
no im asking am i at high risk for my last incident with this man which was on december 4th 2008. if u read back i said he rimmed me and we had sex for 10 minutes with a condom on and about 2 minutes with no condom. he said he is hiv negative. i was just stating that i have had sex with this man 5 other times in which a condom was not worn. the last time i received bareback from him was in november 2007 and i have had 2 negative hiv tests since then.. the last one coming in november 2008.
You are here asking if you are high risk from barebacking?