Low risk exsposure

[wesmantooth]

Hi january this year i had sex with a female escort of chinese origin in the uk with a full website advertising the services an a choice of 4 girls. We had protected intercourse and protected oral sex, however the condom was placed onto my penis whilst flacid and penis gotten erect into the condom, she proceeded to use a lubrication in a bottle that she brought along i pressume it was water base as it seemed to evapourate quickly where as oil stays for some time. So i thought all was well condom did not rupture or appear to rupture and she removed it and continued to masturbate me until ejaculation. 5 days later i experienced some small pea sized lumps along my jaw line probably around a centimetre big maybe smaller, i did not think anything of it and went about my daily business until around the 8th week after this exsposure i experienced a terrible bought of tonsillitis again didnt worry me as it was just a common illness of bacterial tonsillitis and did not think it was anything to worry about, but since this the symptoms seem to be racking up i noticed a very tiny lump on the bone behind my ear with some mild headaches to the back of the head, and then about 6 months later i got anothr lump on the other side on the bone behind my ear again very small hardly noticeable seemed to appear after a small bite or something.

I suppose what i really would like to know is hiv a concern giving the timing of these symptoms?, and do you think such a well advertised and exspensive escort agency would be a concern for hiv passing hiv onto customers, I have noticed recenty the site has closed and no longer trades with contact number or email. However i did email them before seeing the girl and asked about std's and the email reply basically told me they have a very minimal clientel and use condoms for everything, also to add she asked to look at my penis before we had sex i pressume she was checking for any evident sores etc?

I know i have had a minimal risk if not no risk situation but my concern is what if the condom was faulty in some manner as i didnt check it after it had been removed from my penis and i think infact she took it away with her as it wasnt in the bin?

Thanks for your feedback its greatly appreciated and may help calm my nerves.

[wesmantooth]

Hi all i know my symptoms arent really in tow with hiv, but over the weeks i have had some mild pain to the back of my head like throbbing shooting pain, and i have found some very tiny bumps on the bone behind my ears probably always been their. However over the past week or so i seem to be having some issues with my left eye almost as if its fogging over.

Id be fine if i was not getting a different bloody thing every other week and my girlfired has had some issues with some watery spots on her face she thinks its a reaction to her make up im wondering if its all related

thanks for the replys im going to see my doctor about the eye thing and the other sysmptoms  

[halfoldman]

hai wes, symptoms emerge after two or three weeks after potential exposure, and last for over a week, usually its high feaver, what you describe are not symptoms. Why dont you take a test and put ur self at peace, since u used condoms u are ok,so clear ur mind with a test.

[mike_no]

Doesn't matter, symptom or no symptom in your case is irrelevant, you never had a risk. Please move on.

[wesmantooth]

Can symptoms come on as early as 5 days and is it possible to get symptoms all at different times? or would it be all or nothing?

[LIZZIE LOU]

wow...i wish everyone figured that out as fast as you just did  :)

[wesmantooth]

Hi thanks for the reply i suppose its my body doing some odd things to me!

I suppose when your looking you find things that would not otherwise bother you.

[LIZZIE LOU]

you had NO risk of contracting hiv from what you described.