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Upper part of condom stuck at partners anus during withdrawal
Hi I can't figure it out whether I was exposed to HIV risk or not..
I had insertive protected anal sex with a CSW. But when I was "pulling out" after ejuculation, the CSW asked me to stay put and let her pull out the condom herself. At that time I could still see the condom ring on my penis. However she then told me the condom is hard stuck at her anus so I pulled my penis out leaving the condom partly in the anus before she continued to try to get the condom out. When she was pulling the condom out, the condom stretched to a long distance before she got it out. So I assume it didn't' break?
My head tells me since the condom likely didn't break, I was at no risk of hiv. But I am also worried because my penis didn't come out from the anus with condom at the same time. Can anyone help?
I had insertive protected anal sex with a CSW. But when I was "pulling out" after ejuculation, the CSW asked me to stay put and let her pull out the condom herself. At that time I could still see the condom ring on my penis. However she then told me the condom is hard stuck at her anus so I pulled my penis out leaving the condom partly in the anus before she continued to try to get the condom out. When she was pulling the condom out, the condom stretched to a long distance before she got it out. So I assume it didn't' break?
My head tells me since the condom likely didn't break, I was at no risk of hiv. But I am also worried because my penis didn't come out from the anus with condom at the same time. Can anyone help?
It doesn't sound like it broke to me. As long as the head of your penis was covered, you would not risk HIV from this event.
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Do you think the head was covered though? I think yes however my memories are vague
Only you would know but yes, it sounds like it. When we exit and the condom sticks, we're pulling out of the condom. So . . . head is covered.
Only the head needs protection. I think this is what happened.> The head of your penis was out of the anus before it slipped out of the condom.
Therefore you were protected and should move on.
Therefore you were protected and should move on.
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Thanks for the reply. I think this if probably what happened after reading your comment. By the time the penis head was not covered by condom it had already out of the anus.
To put it simply, I pulled out and left the condom behind because the tip of the condom was hard stuck at the anus. Otherwise the condom might split in two if I removed it forcefully.
To put it simply, I pulled out and left the condom behind because the tip of the condom was hard stuck at the anus. Otherwise the condom might split in two if I removed it forcefully.
Since you saw the ring on your penis as you were pulling out, that indicates the head of your penis was covered during intercourse. If your bare penis happened to touch her anus for a second or two while you were pulling out, that's not a situation that's going to put you at any realistic risk for HIV. HIV just isn't that easily transmitted. I wouldn't give this another thought.
Thank you. After reading your comment, I think there was no way my penis head could've touched her anus at any point since the ring was already outside
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