Dear friends. I am having concerns mainly regarding 2 events. Subsequent symptoms have heightened my worries. Answers on other websites haven't fully allayed my fears and of course there is contradictory advice on the internet.
The events:
1 - condom possibly slipped off after ejaculation when pulling out. Semen appears to have been caught in the condom.
2 - struggled to maintain erection during condom protected vaginal sex. Pulled out. Women in brothel jerked me immediately for a few seconds, then took the condom off and jerked me with the same hand for a few seconds, then put on a new condom and vaginal sex commences for 5 minutes.
I was worried about vaginal secretions that within seconds went from the vagina, onto condom, onto penis head, under the condom and then in the urethra whilst back in the vagina.
My worries are heightened because 1 week later I have muscle pains, intermittent nausea and tiredness, a painful LN under my jaw, and nasal congestion. I have had the symptoms for 7-10 days now.
Respiratory tests for viruses like flu and COVID etc were negative.
I'm really worried about HIV.