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Using a toy with lube and Eczema

I had an experience last week, well it goes like this. I told this lady which I've seen before in the past that I was not going to have sex with her anymore and I wanted to be faithful to my wife. So we suggested that we would just use a toy to pleasure her. I started using the toy on her and after doing that for a minute or two i noticed that I got either lube or her fluid on two or three of my fingers. I have a patch of ezcema on my hand next to where the fluid came into contact. As soon as I realized that there was fluid on my hand I went and washed my hands right away. As I was washing my hands the soap stung my ezcema patches making me think they were open. I don't remember scratching it before doing this? Plus I'm not sure if it was bodily fluids or lube that came into contact with my ezcema???

A couple of days after I called her up and asked her when was that last time she was tested for HIV, she said in March. Which is around two months ago. So what do you think my chances are of contracting HIV this way???

Really scared.
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Yes, you can have sex with your wife without protection
Yes, it is ZERO even if she was positive.

We base all accessments as though the other person is HIV positive when we answer questions.
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So Teak do you think it's ok to continue having sex with my wife without protection?

So the chances, even if she was HIV positive of her fluids getting on my Ezcema and infecting me are ZERO?

Sorry about repeating the questions? I'm a little freaked out...
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Zero. HIV is not transmitted outside its host.
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